Love conference teachings

Some lady was kind enough to share with me this piece of wisdom of which am gona share with u on what I learned, i was touched and i felt like this might be a big talk to some one out there...We are all learning...(From a love conference)

“Love is not an island, it does not exist on its own.” , which is true, but how do u balance all the aspects, necessities that combines love?? Foundation informs your character, spend time listening to your inner self “you cannot start an inter-relationship until you have an intra-relationship” it all starts with loving yourself..
we make our own expectations and when he doesn’t live up to our expectations we feel disappointed,Lesson to be learned here, controlling my expectations and being realistic.
Letting him know what I want, learn to speak out, most of the time when i was in relationship was afraid to speak out,  i mean u should know if you have a future with him or not....

Ladies am talking to you...the following can be a guiding key,,be aware....

1. Cooking and performing wifely duties will not make him stay nor marry you, stop it.
2. Controlling your relationship expectations
3. Importance of complimentary behaviour. If you don’t complement each other you will lose each other.
4. Know yourself and what makes you tick, it all starts with you, don’t let everything be about him.
5. We, as women need to stand together and not let them get away with cheating us (and on us).
6. Stop bringing each other down, just because of a man.
7. Let him know what you want.
8. When you go into a relationship, you gotta be steady, on your feet, know who you are and don’t make him your alpha and omega as you will be lost when it’s over.
9. You need to tell him in order for him to treat you better.
10. It is your responsibility to teach him who you are in order for him to know how to perfect that.
11. Don’t allow your immediate gratification to rob you of the real picture.
12. Setting personal principles. Romeo Mabasa said “Where there are no principles, assumptions prevail.”
13. Don’t go to a level where you see that nigga is not changing and you keep hoping he will.
14. When he comes into your life and finds it messed up, he will take advantage of you.
15. “Principles keep you grounded and when you are grounded, you get consistence. When you get consistence you get excellence, and nobody is gonna mess with excellence.” Romeo Mabasa
16. Him not being able to provide for you does not make him any less of a man
17. Don’t control him, a caged animal wants to…?
18. “If you can’t define a good man for yourself then you shouldn’t be in a relationship.” Steven James Dixon.
19. “Continue being you and you will find a man that will appreciate you.”Steven James Dixon.
20. Last but not least,  “Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves, without any insistence that they satisfy you.”AMEN…….