a casket bed

Duu..huyu jamaa sijui ni nini eti..
Kwa mtazamo wako utamuelewaje huyu mtu aliemua kutengeneza kitanda chake kiwe hivi??


 
 
Maelezo ndo haya..
 
Sleeping in a Coffin?
Point of correction, I do not sleep in a casket, I sleep on my bed, it's big and comfy, I only lay in my "casket"when I do my meditation because it helps me to be focused, it tells me more about the imminence of death. My casket is a reminder. It wakes me up from slumber. It tells me, "guy, you have got little or no time left, wake up, be creative and work”.
 
So when people vocalize their disapproval of my message via the image of a casket, I understand that they do that from a position of Fear, fear of what the casket represents - Death. So whatever people fear they antagonize. But, the fact that I have reminded myself and even you about death does not really change a thing. It won’t draw your death near, and it won’t even shift it away. All it does is simply a reminder, to thread carefully.
 
My Coffin preaches:
Take a critical look at my image inside the coffin, it speaks volume. I always lay in my casket with my cap, glasses, shoes on. I’m always well dressed. Yes, it is always done intentionally to tell us that your glory disappears with all the wealth you must have acquired the very day you go to that coffin. The only thing left of you is your history and your legacy. The crux of the message is to leave a legacy, so we can live forever, not in the physical, but in people’s memories. As for me, I will live forever
 
We are blind because of our fears
Who knows what any of us sees from the privacy of our own blindness? Make no mistakes, each of us is blind in a particular way, just as each of us is sighted uniquely. Consider how each of us is blinded by what we fear. If we fear heights, we are blind to the humility vast perspectives bring. If we fear Passion, we are blind to the comfort of Oneness. If we fear change, we are blind to the abundance of life. If we fear death, we are blind to the mystery of the unknown. And since to fear is something thoroughly human, to be blind is unavoidable. It is what each of us must struggle to overcome. To a large degree, I have overcome my fear of death, all I ask God, is that may my death not be painful.
 
mmmh nii nayo ya mwaka..
Ya dunia mengi,,binadamu nao...
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Creativity....amazing places... ..


 
Underwater hotel in the Maldives!
Photo: How amazing would it be to stay at this underwater hotel in the Maldives!

 
 Tennis court in Dubai
Photo: What do you think of this tennis court in Dubai? Crazy or cool?

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Some Wits on Sunday.....

Happy Sunday my people..
Have beautful msgs to give you strenght this Sunday.

 
#1...

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 #3...
 
GOD will HIDE your FUTURE from those who are not supposed to JOIN you in your PROMISED Land. They will think that NOTHING GOOD will ever come from you. BUT... What GOD is really doing is clearing them out of the way to make room for GREATER BLESSINGS that they were NEVER assigned to share with you. So.. If people want to leave you.. Let them leave. God has something GREATER FOR YOU...
Smiles.
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Miss you brother Shillinde....

It has been exactly four years and 1 day since my one and only brother,,Shillinde left us...It has been so difficult to believe that i will no longer see his tender smile again, I always want to believe that he travelled to another town and he will be coming back.

I sometimes look at the sky and wonder why he had to go so soon, why he had to leave us behind without a  brother that we treasured so much and we needed so much.

My brother was protective and always told me to take care, he would advice me on how to behave, he would warn me on some things,I remember that this bothered me, but now that I look back I know that he loved me a lot and wanted what was best for me. He was always there for me when I needed him and I knew that I could talk to him about any problems I had. I trusted my brother a lot and he is one person i would stand and be there for him in whatever situation., i think he was the only guy i would understand more than any guy...

Shillinde was a character. He always had a smile on his face and always seemed to have a new joke to tell. His easy-going relaxed nature made him a delight to be around. He had a lot of close friends and was always the life of the party,,Yes he loved life....

One of the things that I respected the most about my brother was that even though he had such a carefree attitude, he also had a serious side. He was very intelligent and did well at everything he did...and the beautful part of it he was a doctor, a life server...

I miss my brother more than words can say. I miss his kindness, his support and humor. I am thankful for his time on earth.He may be gone but I will always remember how wonderful a person he was and that his memory will continue to live on in my heart and mind forever.....



Love you Shill, Miss you so much..
My twin, my best brother...
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Happiness is Yours for the Taking


by Chris Widener

Happiness -- the pursuit of so many. In fact, we are known in America as those who live for "Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.
But so many seem without happiness. Why is this? Is happiness truly elusive or do we simply not know how to take hold of it? It is my contention that happiness is yours for the taking. That is, anyone can be happy if they choose to be... and if they know how to get it.
So what does it take to bring us to a state of happiness? Here are a few thoughts to get you on your way:
Do not try to control circumstances. One of the biggest "happiness busters" I see is in the frustration people experience (and wallow in) because circumstances have gone awry. This is because their mind-set, whether they know it or not, is that they should be somehow able to control circumstances. But let's get this straight: You can't! So the first thing you can do to give yourself happiness is to stop trying to control, or taking responsibility for circumstances that are outside of your control! Focus all of your attention on developing yourself and doing what is right - controlling yourself while letting what will happen, happen - and you will find happiness opening up within you.
Decide what it is that you want out of life and then stick to it relentlessly. This is two parts: First, know what you want. Get real clear with yourself. Take a private retreat to be alone if you have to, but come to grips with what you want your life to look like.
Secondly, devote yourself to that passion and do not be sidetracked. It is interesting to me how many options we have - good options - that if we pursue them they will actually crush our happiness because they will take us away from what will really make us happy.
Live for a legacy. We cannot be self-absorbed and live only for ourselves. Yes, we only control ourselves, but we can live for the betterment of others. Live your life in such a way that others are touched; and you will find yourself feeling happiness in ways that you could never imagine. For example, I get some of the most touching emails from people I have never met (and probably never will) who tell me how I have helped them. There is little else that brings me such happiness!
Settle your finances. Whatever your financial goals are, get them! Having poor finances is one of the major causes of unhappiness. Now, some people are completely content on $30,000 a year. Others need $200,000 a year. That is okay. We all have different desires, needs, and goals. But the key is to know what you want your financial life to look like and then do what it takes to get there. Among the major things to do is to eliminate as much debt as possible, if not all!

Surround yourself with good friends. Good friend are such a blessing! I have some of the most intelligent, capable, successful, and caring friends a person could have. I have three or four people in my life that I completely trust and admire. When friendships are clicking, there is almost nothing that provides more happiness. Take time to develop your friendships. Spend time with them, do fun things with them, etc. Even as life gets more and more busy, make time with your friends a priority.

Develop your primary love relationship. I spoke at a groom's dinner recently and one of the points I made was that marriage will show you both heaven and hell! Marriage, when it is going well will send you out the door each morning on cloud nine. When it isn't going well, it affects every area of your life negatively. Do whatever you can - work hard - at developing your primary love relationship. The rewards of happiness you reap will be tremendous!

Happiness is yours for the taking - and hope you will take the time to develop your life in such a way as to be able to experience all of the happiness you can handle!
 
 
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happy fools hour

IT IS 1.4.2013....
Hahahaha...it is said to be the fools dei....wonder how it started nd what made it to be known this way...
will dig deep about this..
But today wanna share some "Mpoki's  words"ujinga flani wenye ukweli"....si ndo u fools wenyewe...tusiwe serious leo....

  • Lakini kumbuka .... Ngozi nyeupe sio dili na ndo maana Mungu ameiweka katika unyayo ili ikanyagwe.
  • Na pia usisahau .... hata zipu ina meno, lakini haipigi mswaki.
  • Hata siku moja usisahau .... Chupi hata ichakae vipi, huwezi kuigeuza dekio.
  • Usisahau .... ushuzi nao ni gesi, japo huwezi kuitumia kupika.
  • Hata uendeshe gari la bei ghali kiasi gani, sheli lazima ukutane na upange foleni na daladala na bodaboda.
  • Kakupangishia nyumba, gari kakununulia, hela anakupa, care ya ukweli na hajakuomba chochote na hana dalili? Lazima atakuwa anajiandaa kukutoa sadaka. Shtukaaaaa!
  • Lakini kumbuka .... Hata uwe na haraka kiasi gani hauwezi kuomba lifti gari la taka.
  • Lakini kumbuka ..... Kujenga nyumba kwa wakwe ni sawa na kujenga nyumba kwenye hifadhi ya barabara.
  • Takwimu zinaonyesha kwamba, 8 kati ya kila watu 10 wanaojamba hujifanya si wao na kuuliza "Jamani nani tena kachafua hewa?"
  • Lakini kumbuka ..... hata mtumba ulikuwaga spesho. Jipange
  • Ona umuhimu wa alama ya mkato(,) kwenye sentensi:
    Kuna jamaa alipewa kazi ya kuandika tangazo lililotakiwa kusomeka
    "Mtaalamu wa kucha,mba na kunyoa anapatikana hapa"
    Badala yake akaandika: "Mtaalamu wa kuchamba na kunyoa anapatikana hapa"
  • Lakini kumbuka ...... Hata BlackBerry ina PIN japo haifungi nepi.
  • Lakini kumbuka..... Matako ya sufuria hayaogopi moto na pia usisahau kishindo cha haja kubwa hakitingishi choo.

hahhhaa Mpoki you medi ma dei...
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Some did you know on fools day

Since it is a fools day lets explore all the things that makes us fools...
Hey ladies please read this, as i know most of the girls think that watever and how we think it is the same way Men think..kumbe sio hata kidogo....

Well did  you know that Xex is not Love,Love is not xex, you can have xex and not be in love.But also you can be inlove and not engage in xex.

Did you know that a man may hate you and still have xex with you??Be wise , using xex to manipulate a man will eventually fail, it is self deception to think that giving xex will make him love you.
True love  will neverforce you to engage in xex.

A man who doesnt love you will not change his mind because of xex. If he tells you to prove your love by having xex with him, he is only using you.
If he is in for the xex,a better xex will take him away from you.

Making yourself a xexslave is FOOLISH, Love will nave shame or degrade you.
If you have made this mistake of trying to use xex to buy that man and stay in a relationship, Now it is time to re asses your relationship and build it to the right foundation.

If he gets married to you because of  "the good xex"..it will be a fatal marriage, let him get married to you because he loves you, honors you, feel a strong emotional, mental and spiritual  connection with you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you....

ladies wake up and stop forcing marriages.....
Open your eyes and be wise....Only God knows how this men think....
Usikubali kudanganywa, using'ang'anie usipopendekaaa...let go....

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