A few rules for holiday networking that should be taken into account.
Tips on Holiday Networking!!
A few rules for holiday networking that should be taken into account.
Man Sues wife over ugly children.
“I married my wife out of love, but as soon as we had our first daughter, we began having marital issues,” he told the Irish Times. “Our daughter was incredibly ugly, to the point where it horrified me.”
Angelina Jolie's Gift for hubby Brad Pitt
The question is what do you get for a man who has almost everything of what you could think of... Am talking about buying a gift for your life partner or a close friend who has almost everything you could think of..is it not the hardest thing to think about?
Men it takes me time to decide what i can buy for my close people when it comes to giving them gifts, i find everything not to be worthy it...
Well well, my eyes wide open are focusing on Angelina Jolie's gift to her husband Brad Pitt.
Here is the gossip,
The Maleficent star has reportedly bought Brad Pitt the world's largest Valentine for his upcoming 50th birthday- an island in the shape of a heart!named Petra
Petra is about 50 miles off the coast of New York City and comes complete with a sprawling estate designed by master architect Frank Lloyd Wright, a favorite of Angie's"
Wow!!wow!!
Blessed man.
C
Candy Daily Grape
“No matter how far you have gone in the wrong direction, as soon as you know, turn back." Progress means getting nearer to the place you want to be. And if you have taken a wrong turning, then to go forward does not get you any nearer.
Read it twice to understand what it means...
Nice day.
c.
Hbaba's word for his wife!!
My focus is on the I.G caption...
I loved what H.baba wrote....
Dear husbands out there, this is what you should be telling your wives....
Every wife needs an appreciative husband...
Congz to them,
Hbaba is Tanzanian Musician and actor and Florah is a bongo movie actress,
Tanzanite is such a beauftul healthy baby...
May Allah grow to be a Star among Stars..
C
'How Do Africans Kiss '
It also talks of the lovelessness in our society in general, how we all cower behind the fear of loving or seeking love because we've been exposed to how much one can hurt as a result of being in love.
How a lot of us engage in risk free casual sex affairs that are devoid of an emotional connection because it's easier to not be vulnerable to somebody else.
How normal it has become for people to say ''I don't want a relationship, I just want to have fun'' meaning they just want sex and not the responsibilities that come with sex. How on earth is that fun if you're the one that's being somebody's c*m bucket? I've fallen into the trap and I know plenty of people who have engaged in casual sex relationships.
Yes it's fun in the beginning but somebody always gets hurt somewhere along the line, because to some degree, sex without love is violence.
Many of my friends disagree with me on this, as I'm sure many people do, but over the years, my stand point on the subject of casual sex hasn't changed, somebody is always being short changed because they are too afraid to come clean with their emotions.
And whether you like it or not, you do form an emotional connection with someone you are casually boning for a certain period. How many of us can truly continually divorce emotion from a sexual experience? Men have learned to do that but I refuse to believe that they have less emotions than women. They hide them somewhere good but they are there. Again, I digress...
Well said miss Mill B...
Thanks for this.
C
What the Bible Says about Money
Akon's Mind.
Akon simply doesnt agree with the Monogamy life style, he said in a recent interview that monogamy is not only 'stupid'; it’s 'impossible.'
He continued saying this
"The average guy in the world has a main girl and they got a side chick. And then they got a jumpoff. At the end of the day as a male we are natural breeders by nature. We can’t even escape it if we wanted to.
Let’s say you put 1,000 guys on one corner and one bad chick walk passed. You gon’ see 1,000 heads go, ‘Damn.’ They don’t even know why they doing it. They’re natural breeders. It’s in their genes, they can’t help it. Men are put on this earth to breed and the reason why God put multiple women on this earth is for that.
People are having relationships, boyfriend and girlfriend, and treating it like it’s actually marriage. You’re just dating.
The whole purpose of dating is so you can date this one, and date this one, and date this one until you find out, ‘Okay, this is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. Okay now, I commit to what’s called marriage.’
You find that one woman that supplies everything that you desire in a woman, of course that will be a motivation to stick with that one woman, but I don’t know no one woman that can satisfy every man’s one need. It’s impossible. Just like there’s no man that can satisfy a woman’s every need. Women just aren’t built to breed like that or… mate with more than one partner. Women aren’t built that way, men are.”
What do you think???
Thanks to Linda Ikeji for this item..
Seven Celebrity Quotes on getting older, better and wiser..
- Helen Mirren: “We’re all idiots when we’re young. We don’t think we are, but we are. So we should be.”
- William Shatner: “I was built for the long run, not for the short dash, I guess.”
- Meryl Streep: “I like who I am now. Other people may not. I’m comfortable. I feel freer now. I don’t want growing older to matter to me.”
- Ringo Starr : “I feel the older I get, the more I’m learning to handle life. Being on this quest for a long time, it’s all about finding yourself.”
- Bruce Springsteen: “Adult life is dealing with an enormous amount of questions that don’t have answers.”
- Robert De Niro: “Time goes on. So whatever you’re going to do, do it. Do it now. Don’t wait.”
- Diane Keaton: “A sense of freedom is something that, happily, comes with age and life experience.
Candy Daily Grape..
Life is a progress and a process too..
We daily walk and we learn alot from the routes we are taking.
At times we think that we have had it all and we assume that we know everything and assure ourselves that nothing is difficult,,
Sometimes we are too confident on things which we cannot
But..
The fact remains there..
Everyday is a new day with its own challenges, they may look like the challenges of yesterday but they cannot be exactly like them.
We act like we are perfect but the truth is we are far from being perfect..
Sometimes all we can afford is to give a fake smile to avoid questions from people..
Things that keeps me going on..
Humbling myself,,
Forgiving,,i dont hold grudges and i never bother living my life hating any one
Taking one day at a time,,each step is meaningful to me and yes i must take every step as it comes ...
Embracing what i have and thinking of how to improve it,,i love what i have and what God has blessed me with,,
Smile when i can,,,i dont ever ever miss the chance to smile when i can...
Simplicity,,,no headaches of complications...i love living a simple life....
C..
Question of the day...
Do we sometime fall in love with things because of people we love??
Can you take a minute to think of One thing you so love much now than before because either it was given to you or it was recommended by someone close to you??
It is really interesting how someone loves Manchester United while she doesn't even know the arrangement of the players in the football pitch!!!Lol!!!
Thinking all aloud..
Candy Daily Grape
Simply think before you utter any word.
Be sure of what you are saying.
Make sure it is true.
Make sure it is something good for building not destroying...
Because you cannot erase or take back words once spoken.
And the consequences of one word only can cost you a big deal!!!
Happy Monday..
C,,
The Job Market Hunting
Networking has been proven to be a very resourceful means to finding a job. Create professional online profiles, for example, on LinkedIn that will allow you to connect and establish professional connections.
Participate in conferences in your city that will also enable you to meet new persons. Don’t shy off, approach people and share your ideas. Trick: Be creative and small tricks such as creating a personalized business card for yourself, detailing your contact information will be of good use when it comes to exchanging contacts with new persons.
Mentors are important as they imperative in career advice and guidance. Identify a person whom you look up to in your field of work and approach them. Ask him or her to assist you in developing a career plan, set goals and assist you in achieving those objectives.
In the search for new employees, employers highly consider people with work experience. It is prudent to hire someone with some experience.
Search for internship, voluntary or online job positions. Do as many as you can, at the same time gaining the necessary skill to develop your career.
Don’t be afraid to challenge the operations at your workplace at an entry level position. Identify problems and assist in providing viable solutions. Trick: Draft a report of the same and forward it to your supervisor and those higher in the organization. They will recognize your ability and ambition.
Expand your scope of work and ask for more responsibility at your current station. This way you will be indispensable and will help you move your way up into the organization.
Employers not only look for expertise and education whilst considering new employees. What you do outside work is also a major contributor for the same. Engage in individual hobbies that not only ensure career, but also personal growth.
Participation in online forums, personal business ventures, a sport or a voluntary position will prove that you are focused and hardworking
Thanks to Niaje.com , for this tips!!
The Okojie's wishing everybody a happy sunday
Beautiful Family!!!
It is the day that most people stay with their beloved ones...
if you have the opportunity to be with your family, appreciate that and thank God because many people wish for that and they dont have....
a Little Advice to to Married Women
“Here’s the secret. Stop talking the cheating. He cheated on you, well, he’s a man. You need to focus on the reasons you married him. Does he provide a home for you to live in? Does he provide food for you to eat? Does he provide clothes for you to wear? Is he nice to the children… Is he handsome?”
“Recognize also, like it or not, males have a tendency to wander a little bit. What you want to do is make a home so wonderful that he doesn’t want to wander, or give in to the “salacious” magazine pictures and Internet filled with adult films.
Heheh..Ya ngoswe mwachie Ngoswe..
Kikombe changu kikifika ntaangalia...
C
My pick of the Day!!!
i THink this mAKEs a huBBy Character!!
If i am to marry one day. I simply want to marry a man, not a boy.
I want to marry a guy that would treat me like his daughter, a befriend a wife, and someone he can trust.
I would simply marry a God fearing man
I would marry him who is hardworking, independent of thought and one who sees it through.(one who finishes projects, not leave them hanging)
I would marry someone who thinks better than me,, someone who would make me better than i am now and someone who extends his care to my parents, siblings.
I would marry a guy who admits when he is wrong and is ready to change his ways to being better,
I would marry one who doesnt think like everyone "says that",,but "i say this"
I would marry a humble guy
One who stands for the truth and one who knows what he wants in life and is doing his best to get what he wants.
I would marry a MAN not a "man", i mean someone with women characteristics.
I would marry someone i truly love, because i can stand him, i can sacrifice for him and "for better and for worse"must make a meaning..
Lol..too long but that is it!!! That was my list..only my youngsisters are allowed to copy
C.....
Candy Daily Grape!!
- Pray to God to help me be calm, give me wisdom and patience in dealing with the challenge...(i believe in God and i believe that with him nothing is impossible, the only one who can provide me with a solution)
- Examine the challenge
- Think.....i try to think..thinking big and out of the box for the possible solutions of the problem/challenge faced
- Share my idea with others..in a team working environment you need to get opinions from others too, they might be of more a solution than yours.
- Act on the possible solution to rescue the situation ahead,...
- Identify the causer of the challenge for accountability...no blaming involved here..
Candy Daily Grape
Candy Daily Grape!!
Am sure she said "this baby never gave up, when i was struggling to bring him/her out"
You proved to the doctors and nurses that you were going to survive, God gave you life, he made you breath freely.....
You cried when you had your first minutes on earth......
It is because you accepted that you were going to live, and that you were going to be fighter and not a loser.
Moments come and you think you are better than anyone else, it is not bad but why do u have to compare yourself with others??, well stop comparing yourself with others because this might end up destroying you, you will never be yourself, you will always want to prove to others that you are better than them....let go..
Move on with your life, it is not about what happened in the past what you think might happen in the future, it is about the right thing...
There is no point of going through all that crap if you are not going to enjoy the ride....and you know what sweetheart the moment you least expect it, something great might come along, something better than what you had planned before,..
Just continue walking and holding on becaus the best is yet to come!!!
Well have a nice weekend
C,,
Candy's Daily Grape!!!
Been thinking about this alot..
Been even discussing this with my sweet girl kwenaa...
Been thinking to write about it..
Am thankful someone had the same thing in mind and decided to write about it....
So i have just pasted it as follows from "mke ya Mzungu, u turn blog,
"ACHENI KUANIKA MABOYFRIEND KWENYE SOCIAL NETWORKS, MNAJICHORESHA SANA ,ESPECIALLY WHEN IT ENDS.......
For those needing transalation...u have the google translator...
It is not out of hard feelings but from my on opinion why the heck do u trouble yourself posting pictures of you and your sweethearts of whom you are not even sure you gonna end together..
I have seen it with close friends the trouble they go about deleting and formatting their profiles once the relationship ends...and more specifically when people ask em about their so called once upon time 'imaginary hubby's and wifes'
Busy updating status "me and my bebe", after 3 days you are posting "guys are *#&*...
I find it to be childish....
Wait when you are married to post your bebe, that is when the whole world will want to see to whom you belong..
Yes my life is halfly shared on social network but only the sharable ones..
Am a reserved person and i keep my issues to myself especially those that i cant share or i find em too personal....I know that people end up thinking am hiding things.but it is okay,that make me ME....it is because i like telling my story to myself, laugh at myself and tell myself how i mis-stepped..
We know you love your sweethearts, and when in love you just want the whole world to know but please think about it.....!!!It is for self respect!!!it is a preventive damage for having to answer questions like"what happened to ......."
Nice day,,as you chew this grape!!!
C..
10 ways life After Baby is better-by Jay Miranda.
Jay Miranda is one among few bloggers that i find to be very educating through her experince sharing in parent hood and fashion after baby...
This goes to all the young parents out there.....
I cant wait to be one...
Looks like it is an amazing experience.
Jay Miranda shares this:
- I laugh more.
Parenting is hilarious. Our baby can do things that make us laugh in a “wow this is so adorable” way but also in a “wow this is terrible/stressful but I’m going laugh anyway” way. We just “get” it now in a way you really can’t until you have children. Louis CK has never been more poignant. - I get up early every day.
You know that feeling when you wake up and you think: “oh my god what time is it?” And it’s noon. I remember that feeling. These days I wake up between 7-7:30 every day and I can FEEL the length of the day. This is a hard adjustment but you will also surprise yourself with how much you can accomplish in a whole day. - My baby teaches me stuff.
Me: “John, the baby is so fussy I can’t handle it.”
Husband: “She’s not fussy, she’s teaching you patience. You just aren’t learning.”
Although I had to take a moment after hearing my husband’s comment, he was right. I am a more patient person now. - I eat breakfast every morning.
In my pre-mom days I had the bad habit of skipping breakfast. But now I have to feed a toddler every morning so I eat too. How did I forget that food = energy? A plate of eggs, bacon, fresh fruit, and buttery toast gives me enough energy to chase a toddler until nap time. - I have the privilege of watching my spouse be a parent.
When I met John I never imagined that we would one day be parents together, but I wouldn’t want to be a parent with anyone but him. He was incredible from the day we found out I was pregnant, through pregnancy pillows and late night cheesecake cravings, through labor pains and the birth of our daughter, to the everyday challenges and wonders of raising a child. Seeing the man you love hold your baby for the first time and be so gentle and tender—amazing. - She makes me want to come out of my shell.
I’m a bit of an introvert in real life and don’t normally strike up conversations with people I don’t know. But when I’m with our daughter so many people want to chat us up—other moms, the librarian, random old ladies. She is open and friendly and she reminds me to be more open and friendly. - I value time so much more now.
When you have a lot of free time, it can be easy to take that time for granted. I hardly ever get time that is all to myself so when I do have some, I savor it. Going out with my husband on date night reminds me of when we were first dating—I get so excited when I’m dressing up for our evening out. We have a rule though: no talking about baby. We always break it! - I joined the secret world of moms.I’m a mom now so I’m part of mom club. I’ve connected with so many wonderful mothers through my blog and other spaces. Things I’ve learned in mom club: don’t be so quick to judge others. Watch out for each other’s kids when you are in public. Offer help if you can give it. Always bring an extra toy/snack. We love being moms but we are people too and can talk about non-mom stuff as well as anyone.
- My imagination is back.
Are we having a tea party? Dressing up as cowgirl princesses? Making paper mache chickens? I’m exercising that part of my brain that likes to make-believe and every day I see how play leads to learning. I’m trying to be more imaginative in my grown-up life too. - Adventure is out there.
Last week we spent a day at the LA Zoo. The other day we touched sharks and played with a baby sea lion (through the glass) at the Long Beach Aquarium. We strolled up a long winding path to a lighthouse overlooking the Pacific. We’ve hiked with a baby in a baby carrier. We are planning a family vacation. Seriously, who are we? Before we were parents we used to stay home most weekends. Wanting our daughter to have experiences out in the world has brought us out into the world again.
A Black sLEEP
What do you think for this Black color for a Bedroom??
Beutiful eeh??
C..