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##1 mistake 2013 count down(feelings that comes with Singleness).

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On the count down before the year end.
We only got 10 days before we kick in 2014...The question is what have i achieved in 2013?how far have i gone with 2013?
If i am to fill my basket or my travelling bag to 2014,what are the things that i would leave behind with 2013....Am going to share my top mistakes i made in 2013 and that made me learn in a hard way...

##1...Self Lie.....
It is a sunday morning and i woke to think of how my life has been especially in 2013....am talking about my love life....well its none of anyone's business but still its shareable, i believe that there is someone out there who has a life like mine
2013 has been full of drama,have gone through all series of happenings one can go through, have liked, infatuated, imaginary dated,and have been an imaginary nun!!!lived a lie...yes a big lie...am talking about self lie...

Atleast my tittle has been "single" most of the time...and i would say that it has not been so easy...there have been those days when i wished there was someone steady who would take care of me, someone who would help me make decisions, someone to be funny with n etc...have felt lonely at times and never appreciated being single at times when am alone and managed to lie to others how happy i have been being alone.

I have spent lot of time wishing for a future i am not even sure i really want yet.
Yes i have family members and friends who are happily married,have beautiful children, something i want for myself..yes because i am a human being and in my child bearing years..But certainly not right now....

When you are young, your life is consumed by school, your parents, friends, rules and most of us dont generally get to know ourselves until we are living independently.

When we are in our 20s, we fall into dating trap:we tend to rush to want to get into relationships when we are not emotionally and mentally ready for the kind of commitment they require.Then the next thing you know , you have spent the last 5 years of your life with someone you deeply love but you have not lived life of meaningful independence..I mean here is that You have not enjoyed the freedom that comes with just being a human being with means to tackle the limitations of life on your own steam.
Looking at the bigger picture of life..

For now, the fact that I can:

pack my bag, head to the airport and

just text my parents that I'll be back soon

Apply to go and study any where in the world without consulting anyone

Have my space to myself

Cook with only me as the judge

Make mistakes with only me as the biggest judge

Read and sleep with no interruptions

Comfort myself

Sing and dance with nobody watching

Be inspired to write by self inflicted pain

Be bored without expecting anyone else to entertain me

Be broke because I don't have other mouths to feed and no one to ask for help...

And a whole other bunch of reasons to enjoy being single and responsible for yourself only.

I'm learning that my time and space are valuable things that I must enjoy now because I might not always have enough of either to myself...

Is this a selfish approach? Probably, but it's great.

I still look out the window sometimes at that other grass, but with new eyes, with a new sense of relief, more kindness towards myself and a very satisfying sense of ''I can look but I'm not required to touch''

It is all about attitude..

It is all about how you chose to look at things...

I think that all human beings want to feel like they have the freedom to pursue their desires, even if we aren't always going to do whatever it is we desire, but that freedom to be is what saves us from boredom and loneliness.

look foward for a happy 2014 in your own company..

For those in relationships, make sure you understand why you are in that relationship and the goal to be achieved.Be real...

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7 effects of smoking by pictures..

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#1..Sagging Skin and Wrinkles

#2.Lines and Wrinkles Around the Lips

A woman with lines around her lips smoking.

#3.Damaged Gums and Teeth

#4.Cataracts

#5.Heart Disease and ED

#6.Oral Cancer

#7.Lung Cancer

Please quit..

Of course, giving up any addiction is difficult, but quitting smoking is possible. There are more former smokers (48 million) than current smokers (45 million) in the US. This means that quitting has worked for 48 million people! Your doctor can help recommend medications and other quitting strategies to help you succeed....

Uvutaji wa sigara ni hatari kwa afya yako.

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Chapati Recipe..

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This goes to all my friends especially here in Mozambique...

Ingredients:

1 Kilogram (2.2 lbs) plain white wheat flour (such as used for cakes & pastries)

500 ml (16 oz) oil (not all is used)

500 ml (17 fl oz) water (could be lukewarm)

2 Teaspoons salt (slightly heaped)

Method:

Pour the flour in a big enough bowl.

Add 6 to 8 table spoons of oil and salt and mix them thoroughly.

Add the water and knead until it forms a firm dough which should not stick on the bowl wall. (With a food processor, this process can be quickened up. Please check in the instruction manual, regarding whether the machine can mix stiff dough of 1 kilo flour (just over 2lb) + other ingredients (basically 1/2 liter of water). If not, try halving ALL ingredients).

Prepare a clean, dry, lightly powdered rolling board. Cut the dough into 8 – 10 equal pieces.

Roll each to the diameter of about the size of a dinner plate. If properly mixed, even without a powdered rolling board, the dough should not be too soft or sticky. If it is, add some little flour until it is not. The consistency may vary, depending on the type of wheat flour used

Heat the pan until it is relatively hot. Carefully insert a chapati and wait until the lower side just starts to dry up. Turn it over and spread about 1 – 2 teaspoons of oil all over the surface as the lower side dries up lightly. After a few moments, turn the chapati over and repeat the same process. If the hotplate is not too hot, the lower side should turn golden brown after 1 1/2 to 2 minutes. Do the same for the other side. If they brown too fast or show signs of burning without getting ready, reduce the heat. The ready chapati should feel soft and have lightly browned patches

If one is fast enough, one can roll a chapati, while also minding the one in the pan. At such a pace, the total preparation time, should be about one hour.

Thanks to pika chakula....

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