TOUCHING QUOTE FROM NIKITA..
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"We all wear Masks,
Everyone,
Everyday,
And sometimes
We wear them so much,
We forget who really we are
And
Sometimes
If we are lucky enough,
Someone comes along and shows us
WHO WE WANNA BE,
WHO WE SHOULD BE...." Quoted NIKITA...
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THE WIN WIN POWER PROMOTION AT WORK
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It is always to be smart with everything you do..
Have a purpose with what you do and focus,,
Be an asset that no one would want to dispose...
Check out this,,
The four methods to increase your own non-substitutability at your place of work.
- First, strive to differentiate yourself compared to other workers. If all other workers leave the office at 5pm, then you should leave at 6pm. Instead of copying your co-workers as a way of fitting in, you should rather find ways of standing out for positive reasons. Simply Work in a different style. Dress better. Socialise more effectively. Whatever method you choose for differentiating yourself from the others, do it consistently and gain a reputation in people’s minds for that positive differentiating behaviour.
- Second, attempt to control the tasks in your department. Show through your actions that you possess capabilities of getting the job done every time. Become the bridge between other departments, other supervisors, and other employees and the tasks that require completion.When you stand out as the employee who bridges the gaps and controls tasks, even if you do not do the tasks yourself, you increase your non-substitutability in your boss’ mind.
- Third, control labour where you work. Perhaps your organisation maintains a workers union, staff council, or staff welfare board. Utilise the opportunity to speak on behalf of other employees.Work diplomatically in such a role so that management does not see you as a complaining representative, but rather someone reasonable that brokers deals and gets things done in motivating other employees. Perform well controlling labour, and expect management to soon actually promote you among their ranks into management itself.
- Fourth, control knowledge. Start by understanding your company’s business, market, and clients. Then learn your clients’ businesses and markets. Look for gaps where others lack knowledge of an area.Next, start to control knowledge sharing at your company. Even offer to manage content on an internal webpage for knowledge sharing.
Strive to gain likability by your co-workers. Likability and personable skills gain you referent power. Your ability to garner referent power makes you more powerful than even managers with official power.Jump at the chance to solve company problems or work in growth areas of the firm. Then, further increase your power as a reliable professional who manages critical problems.
- Finally: stay close to power. If others before you gained power, get close to them and make allies. Stay close to those with official power, like the CEO, and those with referent power, like everyone’s favourite employee. Your proximity to power increases your own power through employees’ own subconscious psychological association between you and power.
Smiles..
C
the Sabbath smile...
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| a Happy me..am blessed.. |
I feel so good leaving everything and just spend this day worshiping and praising His name...
My heart cant stop singing this song;
"I am happy today..so happy...in Jesus name i am happy,,because,,,
He has taken away my sins..i am happy so happy today..
And the day to be happy is today..and the time to be happy ois now..and the way to be happy is to make someone happy and to have a little heaven down here""
Well it doesnt cost much to giv a little smile to someone today...
It doesnt hurt to tell people that you love them..
It easens the burden in our hearts when we forgive those who wronged us..
It makes us people when we let our humanity in us be human to everyone regardless of their status...
Happy sabbath..
Smiles..
C.
My # 7 list of couples i love...
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| NAWAOOOOH....'NO COMMENTS.. |
| LOVE THE CONNECTION IN CAREER |
| AT TIMES FUN IS WHAT EVERYONE IS LOOKIN FOR...DONT BE TOO SERIOUS. |
| OPRAH.......JUST DOTS..... |
| THE SMILES ON THEIR FACES SAYS IT ALL.. |
| HEIGHT MATTERS!!!!HEHHE WHEN A WOMAN DOESNT SMILE ON A PHOTO SHOOT,THEN THE MAN ON HER ARMS COVERS IT FOR HER.. |
ADMIRE EM..
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Relationship spices..
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It helps if you didn’t start too early! Because people who first learn to be intimate in their 20s generally develop better relationship skills than those who first learn intimacy as teenagers. But all that’s probably behind you! What can you do to improve matters now?
First start working on yourself. Take more exercise, and eat and dress well, because the more you like the way you look, the sexier you’ll feel. Keep studying, to keep your brain active.
First start working on yourself. Take more exercise, and eat and dress well, because the more you like the way you look, the sexier you’ll feel. Keep studying, to keep your brain active.
Stay close to old friends, and become part of something bigger than yourself – like doing some voluntary work. Set yourself some serious goals in life and become more resilient – learning from your mistakes rather than regretting them. Focus on what’s good in your life rather than what’s not. And be comfortable with who you are, rather than who you wish you were.
Next, think about re-arranging your schedule. Because hot marriages need at least one meaningful conversation a week, sex at least twice as often, cuddles, kisses and romantic words every single day, loads of sexy emails and texts and plenty of romantic gestures like making each other cups of tea.
Now think about how you hug. How long does it last? A few seconds? Next time, hold on a lot longer. Hugging for at least 20 seconds increases your oxytocin levels and makes you a much closer couple.
You also need time away from the kids, family and work to relax and reconnect. So arrange a babysitter and organise dinner together just as carefully as you would for a client. Several times a month...
And clear out your bedroom. Pictures of your children or mother-in-law could be subconsciously lowering the temperature. Consider confining the TV and laptops to the living room. You’ll be far cosier without them. Leave arguments out there too. If you and your partner have a spat, make up before you go to bed.
Hot couples never leave disputes festering and are good at resolving issues. So practice your argument skills! Learn when to say sorry, allow each other some privacy, and be comfortable with each other’s faults.
And don’t complain that your spouse disappoints you in the bedroom if you’ve never actually said what you want! So be open with each other about what you like and what you don’t. Be adventurous, and try anything... at least once.Because novelty really matters. Long-term relationships need dependability and predictability, but that’s not so good in the bedroom. So be imaginative.
Get the candles, music, bath oils and so on prepared – and add a little mystery by letting on that there’s going to be a “surprise” after the kids are asleep. The anticipation will do wonders for both of you!
Nice Article.
Thanks to J.K. for sharing..
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Nice Article.
Thanks to J.K. for sharing..
C
THE POWER OF BELIEVING IN YOUR SELF
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| I BELIEVE IN THE IMAGE I SEE ON MY MIRROR, I BELIEVE ON THE PERSON AM LOOKING AT, AND I BELIEVE THAT SHE UNIQUE AND CAN DO BETTER EVERYDAY. |
Believe in yourself and the world will believe in you.”
What happens to you when you believe in yourself, and just why would the world believe in you?
The absence of a long-term commitment to personal vision as one cause of the victim mentality.
It is said: “When you know you are right, you focus on what you can control rather than the environment around you that you can merely influence.”
People who believe in themselves take action and produce specific tangible results that doubting Thomases can touch and feel to believe you. They produce wealth, not worries.
Turning obstacles into opportunities: As Napoleon Hill intimidated in 1931, “There are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge (read as we accept as true).”
A key reason most people born without economic means would rather remain poor and take no action to transition is the idea of how things will look like when they fail. This is unlike the wealthy, who instead would look at the same situation from the point of view of how fine life would be when they have succeeded in implementing their wealth idea.
A key reason most people born without economic means would rather remain poor and take no action to transition is the idea of how things will look like when they fail. This is unlike the wealthy, who instead would look at the same situation from the point of view of how fine life would be when they have succeeded in implementing their wealth idea.
The Bible, Numbers (13:31-33), has a perfect example in Christian life.
Both the poor and the wealthy have dominating visions, the poor seeing doom, which results in maintenance of the status quo, while the other sees glory waiting and motivation to follow God’s will.
These people may live in the same neighbourhood and probably went through the same schools, but will gradually go into separate worlds patronised by different people around them, each attracting like poles.
One group overcomes obstacles, doing great things and wielding power around the world. The other group — victims — wonders what happened and looks helplessly for assistance.
Everything is in your hands.
The choice is yours,,
The best you can do for yourself is believing yourself..
Smiles..
C
Everything is in your hands.
The choice is yours,,
The best you can do for yourself is believing yourself..
Smiles..
C
LETTING GOD BE GOD
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We are creatures of the sight.
We cannot detach ourselves from the physical environment "what we see"
What is real is what we make it to be..
How you look at something is actually how you interpret it.
Minds create reality....
When it comes to God,,,
Let God be God..
We can only understand God through our senses"minds"....
We cannot explain God..He says"Be silent/Still and know that I am God"..
We are actually the ones that need God, we are the ones who cannot live without God.
We are actually the ones that need God, we are the ones who cannot live without God.
We should never doubt him or question his presence in our lives.
We should be careful on how we interprete circumstances in our lives.
It is from this interpretations that reviews who we are
Let us all have a nice & Positive thinking in everything that happens to us...
Smiles..
C..
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