Tablet-Magazine-cameshworld: June 2013

A beautful sunday

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Feels so great to be loved..
Feels so great to have a family in a foreign country and with foreign people....
Am so grateful to the Fungura's..i had the most beautful saturday night and sunday...
I never imagined that a day would come and i will feel so home like i do now,
I have learnt kindness,love,humbleness and sharing from this family and this goes to everybody out there, especially to women,
"we are the home makers, we are the one who can make others come to our homes and we are the ones that people/visitors look up to when they visit our homes...
A Good Attitude, a good tongue, a smile, a quick hand in the kitchen is what makes a good woman, a good mother"
and another thing is,,,
''always present yourself to people in such a way that everybody and anybody will want to live with you."mama said this to me.."

Some memories with the twins..

blessed

I love the smiles..full of life

Relaxed

Tongue out, the funny faces...i love being young...gives you a nice feeling doing things freely without caring what others will think..

aunt anapodeka..

Dada mpenda picha...

xoxo

A great Sunday to everybody..

C..

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Choose wisely...

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So i woke up today expecting so much from life and people around me.....
Whatever i had planned yesterday to do today when i wake up, find no energy in doing it.
I opened my facebook page and this is what i see....
"It got me......,,
Goes as'''Small choices tunazozifanya ndo zinatucost baadae. kutoka kazini kwenda home kulala wakati wenzio wanaenda kutafuta network unafika home unangalia series while wengine wanasoma vitabu nakuangalia inspirational movies/video...Maisha yanabadilika lakini sisi hatubadiliki.
If you want to get rich make sure ure surrounded with successful people so that they can teach you where to find them...THE POWER OF NETWORKING /goodmorning

Thanks Tina Adolf for this status...
Pasted it here to reach more people.
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one big fearful step to take....

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Maybe what hurts you the most is the right thing to do...
Maybe that empty hole inside you that widens everyday when you taking that decision is the most important teacher in your life...
Yes most of us chose to learn it in a hard way,,,we chose to close our senses and as the song sings"i just want to feel this moment" we happily sing along...we decide to burry the the after this moment consenquenses...
At times we have the truth just under our nose and we are afraid to accept it..we prefer to be called "cowards"...dont love this word but well it is "the moment of truth...the moment of black and white"..
We assume a lot...especially when we really care about people and just because they are kind to you you probably assume that "whatever your heart is pumping..and whichever it is dancing" then you share that dancing with a zero difference,,while actually they have never danced along with your "heart dance"....
When you come to think about all this...it brings you back to the saying that goes as " all is vanity/all is meaningless when there is no meaning in having them"...."man's toil over accumulating lots of wealth,while having a sad face is considered to be vanity....
Well everyone has the best answer and knows what to do according to his/her situation,,the only thing that blurs the eyesight is fear...
We don't love taking that step towards to what we fear most...
Take the step as long as it is the right thing to do...don't look back...doesn't matter how painful it is...remember that everything that has a beginning also has an end...most of the pain we experience in this world is temporarily and it heals in time.......
The world require strong people who can walk with tears on their eyes and yet manage to say they are okay..

Did i manage to wipe some dust on your eyes???
Or indeed i wiped them mine eyes only...

##Time to take a turn around and face reality under your nose##..
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ONE WISE WORD..

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BE INDEPENDENT

DEPEND ON YOURSELF...

YES THIS IS A SONG THAT EVERYONE WHO WISHES YOU WELL SINGS IT TO YOU...

BUT AS MUCH AS WE ARE

INDEPENDENT,

DEPENDING ON OURSELVES

WE SHOULD AS WELL REMEMBER THAT

THERE MUST BE A TIME WHERE WE MUST TRUST OTHERS..

KEEP PEOPLE CLOSE TO US..

FIRST STEP OF KEEPING PEOPLE CLOSE IS A TENDER SMILE...
A SMILE SAYS REPRESENTS OUR ATTITUDE..

##KEEP SMILING...##

NICE DAY..

C.

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A piece of "words"

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What if??is the most dangerous question that one can ask himself.
Maybe fear is not such a bad thing, it causes s us to stop, look around and become situational aware.
Decisions are cost full /have consequences ,, a Moment comes in your life when you decide to be you, you decide to change your lifestyle, turn away from the world, when you put the "goodies of the world " into the dustbin, things you love doing most, things that the world will look at you and say "she has gone nuts ", some will dare tell it to your face "you just so boring"
It is the time when people will walk away from your life..
But,,
Take heart, those that are destined to be with you will remain, and when You trust God he will add more true people in your life to walk with you the narrow route you taking...
Just be yourself and live a clean life..
Remember a friend is someone who knows you well, both the positives and the negatives and still loves you unconditionally...

##things I think gather and write##
Smiles..
C..

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The smiles and laughter we share..."True friends are priceless"

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The better quality relationships you can have; the more likely you are to be happy.I am more happy to be a great friend to someone and i keep close my friends..

Some practical things you can do to be there for a friend include:
Listen.The best way to listen is to try and understand the situation from your friends’ point of view. If you aim to do this, you’ll naturally find yourself beginning to ask the right sort of questions and they will appreciate having someone who really cares about how they feel and what they’re going through. You don’t have to have all the answers, and you shouldn't assume your friend wants advice – they might just want to talk so that they can work out what they’re going to do themselves.

Ask them what they need. If you’re worried about someone and you want to be there for them, just ask them what they need- that way you know what they find helpful during tough times, and you can be there in a way that’s most useful to them.

Get physical. Smiles and hugs are a great way to show friends that they’re not alone, that you’re there for them, and that they are important.

Keep in touch. Even if you guys aren’t nearby each other, making an effort to keep in touch through facebook, emails, texts and calls will show your friend you are there for them.

Tell them how you feel. You don’t have to make a big deal of it all the time but sometimes there are moments where letting someone know that they’re important to you through something you say, can make a big difference to how someone is feeling.

Get the facts. If your friend has a medical condition, or a mental health issue, a good way to offer support is to learn about what they’ve been diagnosed with. Taking an interest in what they’re going through shows that you care, and that you’re planning to stick around no matter what’s going on.

Be willing to make a tough call. If you think the safety of your friend is at risk, you might need to act without their consent and get help

Friendship is Sharing..

We share the thoughts..

We share the laughter

We Share the Pose

We Share the smile..

We share the Food.

A little bit of everything...

The table.

The Cake....very sweet..

What you get from young girls..."they teach you how to smile and be easy with life...play...sing, swing,,,enjoy....

love this little pumpkin......we were singing "shine bright like a diamond"...

and here we go the big girl on the swing....felt "13"

It was such bright Sunday...thanks to my Maputo family...

C..

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DOES IT GIVE YOU COURAGE???

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LOLEST!!!

AND YOU CRYING THAT YOU WILL DIE SINGLE....WHO SAID SO..

THEY SAY THAT" THE BEAUTFUL ONES ARE NOT YET BORN" AND

THE SAYING THAT GOES " EVERYONE IS BORN FOR SOMEONE" DID I QUOTE IT RIGHT???

WHAT ABOUT THE SAYING " AGE IS NOTHING BUT A NUMBER"

##FUNNY WISDOMIC WORDS FOR GIVING COURAGE###

Hehe!!

C..

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The Change You are about to take.

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This is going to that person who is employed and is thinking about going into business, and you, that person who may have just left employment to start a business.

Many people want to go into business. They have certain beliefs, and delusions, about running a successful business. Many want to escape the “restrictions” that employment supposedly imposes, such as the freedom to spend time as they wish and the ability to earn millions in a month.

I want to share with you what I have learned along the way while running my own business in the hope that you will avoid some of the expensive mistakes that many have made.

1 The networks you had while in employment are not necessarily going to carry forward into your business. When I left employment, I was working for a prestigious bank.

I assumed that the clients I had then would cross over with me into my small business. They did not. The clients associated with the brand that was behind me, i.e. the bank. When I left the brand, they could not be bothered. I have met many people about to make this mistake. Do not assume that because you are good at your current job, clients will jump into your boat.

You have to be prepared to build a new network and to prove yourself all over again under a new name. Even your close family and friends may very well not become your clients, so do not depend on that. Maybe before you hand in your resignation, see if your proposition is strong enough to attract one or two independent clients who are not associating with you because of the company you work for.

2 You will be kicked out of your comfort zone. The lifestyle you had when employed will not be sustainable when in business.

Be ready to not be able to hang out with your friends that much. You will be tempted to show everyone that you are doing well by continuing to live the way you did before. Many times people spend money to accommodate the image and comforts they had while employed. They get an office in the right location with a receptionist and messenger and establish an entertainment budget even before the first client walks in.

They then kid themselves that the money will come. Six months later when reality hits, they have to let go of the support staff they surrounded themselves with. When you are starting out, focus only on the necessary things needed to run the business. Let all other things be dictated by the actual growth of the business.

You may not even need an office to begin with. Be prepared to be the messenger, filing clerk, and sales and marketing executive all at once. You will not have that free time you dreamed about. A day willcome when you have Sh200 in your bank account and still have to keep moving.

This process is about character building and if you are not ready for your character to be challenged, reshaped, and transformed through trials, then business is not for you. The character that is created as you are shoved out of your comfort zone is what is needed to support the growth of your organisation as you build it.

Do not look at a person who has been in business for some time and start comparing yourself or live the life they are living. They have walked a journey of 1,000 miles to get there.

3 You will fail if it is only about the money. Two people can start a butchery in the same location. One thrives, the other does not. Why? Because of the motive behind the business.

One is in it for money and the other because he actually likes what he does and enjoys serving people. He will naturally spend more time learning about it and put up proper structures to make the business more efficient. Being passionate and purposeful about what you are doing gives you the “staying power” required to get through the hard times.

Entrepreneurship, at the end of the day, is a fantastic journey; you only learn once you are in it. There is no guarantee that can be provided to you from the sidelines. Commit to the learning process, aware that not everything you plan may come to pass.

The biggest question I think people need to ask is, “Am I ready to change?”

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GIVE THE BEST YOU'VE GOT.

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A skillful carpenter was ready to retire.

He told his employer-contractor of his plans to.leave the house-building business and live a more leisurely life with his wife enjoying his extended family..

He would miss the pay cheque, but he needed to retire. They could get by.

The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could build just one more house as a personal favour..

The carpenter agreed but in time it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work.

He resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials..It was an unfortunate way to end a dedicated career.
When the carpenter finished his work, the employer came, but instead of the customary inspection, he handed the front door Key to the carpenter.
'This is your house', he said. It's my Gift to you.'
The carpenter was shocked! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his own house, he would have done it differently.

MORAL:
You are the carpenter. Each day you hammer a nail, place a board or erect a wall. Your attitudes and the choices you make today build the "house" you live in tomorrow. Build it Wisely!!
Work like you dont need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like no body is Watching.

##wisdom words that we need everyday##

C..

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IS SUICIDE A SOLUTION???

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Is Suicide a Solution??

Bollywood actress, Jiah Khan, 25, committed suicide by hanging herself from a ceiling fan in her bedroom at her residence in Mumbai on Sunday June 2nd when her mother and sister were not home.

'This is what she wrote in her goodbye letter..
I don't know how to say this to you but I might as well now as I have nothing to lose. I've already lost everything. If you're reading this I might have already left or about to leave. I am broken inside. You may not have known this but you affected me deeply to a point where I lost myself in loving you. Yet you tortured me every day.

These days I see no light I wake up not wanting to wake up. There was a time I saw my life with you, a future with you. But you shattered my dreams. I feel dead inside. I've never given so much of myself to someone or cared so much. You returned my love with cheating and lies.

It didn't matter how many gifts I gave you or how beautiful I looked for you. I was scared of getting pregnant but I gave myself completely.

When I first met you I was driven, ambitious and disciplined. Then I fell for you, a love I thought would bring out the best in me. I don't know why destiny brought us together.

After all the pain, the rape, the abuse, the torture I have seen previously I didn't deserve this. I didn't see any love or commitment from you. I just became increasingly scared that you would hurt me mentally or physically.

Your life was about partying and women. Mine was you and my work. If I stay here I will crave you and miss you.

So, I am kissing my 10-year career and dreams goodbye. I never went with anyone else. I am a loyal person. No other woman will give you as much as I did or love you as much as I did. I can write that in my blood...

You never even met my sister. I bought your sister presents... You never appreciated my love, kicked me in the face... The Goa trip was my birthday present but even after you cheated I still spent on you.
I aborted our baby when it hurt me deeply... I wish you had loved me like I loved you... I leave this place with nothing but broken dreams and empty promises. All I want now is to go to sleep and never wake up again...'"

Please and please, abeg ouh....breaking up with someone you Love is not the end of life..
Remember of the life you had before meeting this people.
Remember of the importance of having you for yourself...
Keep in mind that nothing lasts forever not even a picture, the only person who can be with you till the end of time is God, trust me, he is the only one worthy dying for.
As much as that pain you feel in you, be strong enough to fight it back, remember the strong ones are the ones who survives "the rule is survival for the fittest"
Other people experience so much pain more than that of yours, you don't beat em even a little of it.
Stay calm and let God be in charge.

##Have a second thought before you make a step###
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Time to Time questions in our Minds..

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Do you sometimes take time looking at the wonderfully made image of you in the mirror..what comes in your mind when you looking at yourself....
Do you sometimes feel like changing anything in your personality..
Do you think we can ever erase who we are??Come back from it,things we have done, just everything,
Do we even deserve to??
Have you ever woken up one day just to ask yourself "WHO AM I?WHAT AM I DOING??WHERE AM I HEADING??WHAT IS NEXT??.
Do you sometimes feel like your life is on Suspense/on hold/not balanced..

We sometimes judge ourselves too much and normally don't appreciate ourselves.
Imagine if it was the question of who sinned first we would all go to the garden of Eden,
You don't have to hide from your sins, you kind just face them, but it is one thing to face your sins and it is another to let it eat you alive,
and why do we let things of the past/sins of the past haunt our memory even after asking God to forgive us..
All this should be something to help us focus on what is important.
The question is HOW FAR ARE YOU WILLING TO GO??
Remember that the game requires those that are willing to take the risk.as the saying goes "NO RISK,NO REWARD"
Throw well your one stone to hit two birds....(don't over interpret this sentence)
We can only change our attitudes and views on things we want to, we learn to love them, appreciate them, accept them and say no to what is not good.

#things you think and write##...
Good Wednesday to you all.
C...

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TOUCHING QUOTE FROM NIKITA..

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"We all wear Masks,
Everyone,
Everyday,
And sometimes
We wear them so much,
We forget who really we are
And
Sometimes
If we are lucky enough,
Someone comes along and shows us
WHO WE WANNA BE,
WHO WE SHOULD BE...." Quoted NIKITA...

C..

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THE WIN WIN POWER PROMOTION AT WORK

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It is always to be smart with everything you do..
Have a purpose with what you do and focus,,
Be an asset that no one would want to dispose...
Check out this,,

The four methods to increase your own non-substitutability at your place of work.

First, strive to differentiate yourself compared to other workers. If all other workers leave the office at 5pm, then you should leave at 6pm. Instead of copying your co-workers as a way of fitting in, you should rather find ways of standing out for positive reasons. Simply Work in a different style. Dress better. Socialise more effectively. Whatever method you choose for differentiating yourself from the others, do it consistently and gain a reputation in people’s minds for that positive differentiating behaviour.
Second, attempt to control the tasks in your department. Show through your actions that you possess capabilities of getting the job done every time. Become the bridge between other departments, other supervisors, and other employees and the tasks that require completion.When you stand out as the employee who bridges the gaps and controls tasks, even if you do not do the tasks yourself, you increase your non-substitutability in your boss’ mind.
Third, control labour where you work. Perhaps your organisation maintains a workers union, staff council, or staff welfare board. Utilise the opportunity to speak on behalf of other employees.Work diplomatically in such a role so that management does not see you as a complaining representative, but rather someone reasonable that brokers deals and gets things done in motivating other employees. Perform well controlling labour, and expect management to soon actually promote you among their ranks into management itself.
Fourth, control knowledge. Start by understanding your company’s business, market, and clients. Then learn your clients’ businesses and markets. Look for gaps where others lack knowledge of an area.Next, start to control knowledge sharing at your company. Even offer to manage content on an internal webpage for knowledge sharing.

Strive to gain likability by your co-workers. Likability and personable skills gain you referent power. Your ability to garner referent power makes you more powerful than even managers with official power.Jump at the chance to solve company problems or work in growth areas of the firm. Then, further increase your power as a reliable professional who manages critical problems.

Finally: stay close to power. If others before you gained power, get close to them and make allies. Stay close to those with official power, like the CEO, and those with referent power, like everyone’s favourite employee. Your proximity to power increases your own power through employees’ own subconscious psychological association between you and power.

Smiles..
C

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the Sabbath smile...

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a Happy me..am blessed..

The gift of life from God is an extravagance grace...
I feel so good leaving everything and just spend this day worshiping and praising His name...
My heart cant stop singing this song;

"I am happy today..so happy...in Jesus name i am happy,,because,,,
He has taken away my sins..i am happy so happy today..
And the day to be happy is today..and the time to be happy ois now..and the way to be happy is to make someone happy and to have a little heaven down here""

Well it doesnt cost much to giv a little smile to someone today...
It doesnt hurt to tell people that you love them..
It easens the burden in our hearts when we forgive those who wronged us..
It makes us people when we let our humanity in us be human to everyone regardless of their status...

Happy sabbath..
Smiles..
C.

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My # 7 list of couples i love...

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Steve and Marjorie Harvey

NAWAOOOOH....'NO COMMENTS..

Jay-Z and Beyoncé

LOVE THE CONNECTION IN CAREER

Jordin Sparks and Steph Jones

AT TIMES FUN IS WHAT EVERYONE IS LOOKIN FOR...DONT BE TOO SERIOUS.

Oprah Winfrey and Stedman Graham

OPRAH.......JUST DOTS.....

Mary J. Blige and Kendu Isaacs

THE SMILES ON THEIR FACES SAYS IT ALL..

Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith

HEIGHT MATTERS!!!!HEHHE

Jennifer Hudson and David Otunga

Jennifer Hudson and David Otunga

WHEN A WOMAN DOESNT SMILE ON A PHOTO SHOOT,THEN THE MAN ON HER ARMS COVERS IT FOR HER..

ADMIRE EM..

C..

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Relationship spices..

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You might not believe it, but some marriages are wonderfully happy. Hot in fact. When was the last time you described yours like that? So what do you have to do to have such an intense relationship?

It helps if you didn’t start too early! Because people who first learn to be intimate in their 20s generally develop better relationship skills than those who first learn intimacy as teenagers. But all that’s probably behind you! What can you do to improve matters now?
First start working on yourself. Take more exercise, and eat and dress well, because the more you like the way you look, the sexier you’ll feel. Keep studying, to keep your brain active.

Stay close to old friends, and become part of something bigger than yourself – like doing some voluntary work. Set yourself some serious goals in life and become more resilient – learning from your mistakes rather than regretting them. Focus on what’s good in your life rather than what’s not. And be comfortable with who you are, rather than who you wish you were.

Next, think about re-arranging your schedule. Because hot marriages need at least one meaningful conversation a week, sex at least twice as often, cuddles, kisses and romantic words every single day, loads of sexy emails and texts and plenty of romantic gestures like making each other cups of tea.

You also need time away from the kids, family and work to relax and reconnect. So arrange a babysitter and organise dinner together just as carefully as you would for a client. Several times a month...

The President and First Lady

Now think about how you hug. How long does it last? A few seconds? Next time, hold on a lot longer. Hugging for at least 20 seconds increases your oxytocin levels and makes you a much closer couple.

And clear out your bedroom. Pictures of your children or mother-in-law could be subconsciously lowering the temperature. Consider confining the TV and laptops to the living room. You’ll be far cosier without them. Leave arguments out there too. If you and your partner have a spat, make up before you go to bed.

Hot couples never leave disputes festering and are good at resolving issues. So practice your argument skills! Learn when to say sorry, allow each other some privacy, and be comfortable with each other’s faults.

And don’t complain that your spouse disappoints you in the bedroom if you’ve never actually said what you want! So be open with each other about what you like and what you don’t. Be adventurous, and try anything... at least once.Because novelty really matters. Long-term relationships need dependability and predictability, but that’s not so good in the bedroom. So be imaginative.

Get the candles, music, bath oils and so on prepared – and add a little mystery by letting on that there’s going to be a “surprise” after the kids are asleep. The anticipation will do wonders for both of you!

Nice Article.
Thanks to J.K. for sharing..
C

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THE POWER OF BELIEVING IN YOUR SELF

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I BELIEVE IN THE IMAGE I SEE ON MY MIRROR, I BELIEVE ON THE PERSON AM LOOKING AT, AND I BELIEVE THAT SHE UNIQUE AND CAN DO BETTER EVERYDAY.

“People doubt their beliefs, but believe their doubts.
Believe in yourself and the world will believe in you.”

What happens to you when you believe in yourself, and just why would the world believe in you?

The absence of a long-term commitment to personal vision as one cause of the victim mentality.
It is said: “When you know you are right, you focus on what you can control rather than the environment around you that you can merely influence.”

People who believe in themselves take action and produce specific tangible results that doubting Thomases can touch and feel to believe you. They produce wealth, not worries.

Turning obstacles into opportunities: As Napoleon Hill intimidated in 1931, “There are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge (read as we accept as true).”

A key reason most people born without economic means would rather remain poor and take no action to transition is the idea of how things will look like when they fail. This is unlike the wealthy, who instead would look at the same situation from the point of view of how fine life would be when they have succeeded in implementing their wealth idea.

The Bible, Numbers (13:31-33), has a perfect example in Christian life.

Both the poor and the wealthy have dominating visions, the poor seeing doom, which results in maintenance of the status quo, while the other sees glory waiting and motivation to follow God’s will.

These people may live in the same neighbourhood and probably went through the same schools, but will gradually go into separate worlds patronised by different people around them, each attracting like poles.

One group overcomes obstacles, doing great things and wielding power around the world. The other group — victims — wonders what happened and looks helplessly for assistance.

Everything is in your hands.
The choice is yours,,
The best you can do for yourself is believing yourself..
Smiles..
C

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LETTING GOD BE GOD

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We are creatures of the sight.

We cannot detach ourselves from the physical environment "what we see"

What is real is what we make it to be..

How you look at something is actually how you interpret it.

Minds create reality....

When it comes to God,,,

Let God be God..

We can only understand God through our senses"minds"....

We cannot explain God..He says"Be silent/Still and know that I am God"..
We are actually the ones that need God, we are the ones who cannot live without God.

We should never doubt him or question his presence in our lives.

We should be careful on how we interprete circumstances in our lives.

It is from this interpretations that reviews who we are

Let us all have a nice & Positive thinking in everything that happens to us...

Smiles..

C..

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