TURN FAILURES TO SUCCESS

YESTERDAY’S FAILURE BECOMING TODAY’S SUCCESS

 When you look around you today, you will notice that there are two sets of people: losers and winners. Philippians 3:12-14.
 
 Yesterday’s failure can become today’s success;
tragedies can become triumph when God is involved. We have seen a sinner’s character healed.
Christians can make bad mistakes but because of their relationship with God, they know they can immediately go to God over their behaviour. 
God helps them get back on their feet, forgives them and helps them not to make the mistake again.
Is any weakness holding you down? What you see as a disadvantage can be turned into an advantage only if you run to God and not from Him.
Remember, Jesus Christ is the sinner’s only saviour. He wants to be involved in all you do and walk you through whatever life brings.
 
YESTERDAY’S FAILURE BECOMING TODAY’S SUCCESS When you look around you today, you will notice that there are two sets of people: losers and winners. Philippians 3:12-14. Yesterday’s failure can become today’s success; tragedies can become triumph when God is involved. We have seen a sinner’s character healed. Christians can make bad mistakes but because of their relationship with God, they know they can immediately go to God over their behaviour.  God helps them get back on their feet, forgives them and helps them not to make the mistake again. Is any weakness holding you down? What you see as a disadvantage can be turned into an advantage only if you run to God and not from Him. Remember, Jesus Christ is the sinner’s only saviour. He wants to be involved in all you do and walk you through whatever life brings.
 
Thanks to the T.B Joshua's Page in facebook.
 
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THE SODOMA GOMORA WEDDING IN SA...


I JUST WONDER IF AFRICA IS BECOMING A SUPPORTER OF THIS IDEA.......
I KEEP WONDERING WHERE WE ARE HEADING
ONE THING I KNOW FOR SURE IS THAT THIS IS ONE OF THE SIN THAT MADE SODOMAH AND GOMORA TO PERISH,
I JUST  DONT UNDERSTAND HUMAN WAY OF THINKING,
I DONT GET WHERE OUR LEVEL OF FEAR OF GOD IS...
 
I PERSONALLY,,BELIEVE THAT GOD CREATED US SO WONDERFULLY AND SO PERFECT JUST LIKE THE WAY WE ARE.
HE CREATED MAN AND WOMAN FOR A PURPOSE.
HE GAVE US ORGANS WITH SPECIFIC FUNCTIONS TO PERFORM.
 
BUT THEN SATURN IS CLEVER ENOUGH FOR HIS FOLLOWERS BY IMPORTING THAT IDEA OF HOMOSEXUALITY TO BE A NORMAL THING AND THAT PEOPLE ARE BORN THAT WAY.
I STRONGLY DISAGREE WITH THIS AND I KNOW THAT NO ONE WAS BORN TO BE A GAY..IT STARTS WITH THE MIND AND HOW FAR YOU AGREE SOME RIDICULOUS FEELINGS TO CONTROL YOU PLUS THE SUPPORT YOU GET FROM PEOPLE AROUND  YOU.....
 
PHEEEEW!!!!!KICHEFUCHEFUUU
 
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There were no celebrities but what stood out for me was the way South Africa has evolved. Who would have imagined a gay wedding, a proud gay black couple rather in the township hosting such an event with their family, friends and community.
 
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The couple wanted South Africa or the world to know about their union and they hope(d) they would be role models especially in the township.(IMAGINE THE GENERATION TO OUR FUTURE CHILDREN)
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That guy Zama asked to be addressed as the BRIDE… I guess his dress code, the ring, eye lashes and the bouquet said it all. The place is nice, people look amazing but ll i can say its waste...
 
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One family member said “you guys imposed this kind of life to us, so we ask you to uphold it and be an example to many.”
 
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Hayi ndidiniwe ngoku, let the pictures do the rest of the talking…
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Checking-out i-knees zika sisters and date J
 
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Sally Mavundla with WiFE Zama Madi (check Zama’s eye lashes)
 
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Galz on some fashion tip.
 
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chefuchefuu
 
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Seriously????
 
mmm tuombe sana...
i feel like we are cruising in the lands of Sodoma and gomora...
 
Angalizoooo
Girls get married....ndo wanaisha hivooo......
 
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COMPETITION IS HEALTHY

WE NORMALLY SEE COMPETITION AS SOMETHING BAD,
MOST OF THE TIME PEOPLE VIEW COMPETITION IN SUCH  WAY THAT IT CAN BE SORT OF JELOUSY...
COMPETITION IS GOOD
IT IS JUST HOW YOU DEFINE IT AND TAKE IT TO BE.
SEEING THE POSITIVE SIDE OF COMPETITION CAN MAKE YOU A BETTER PERSON IN BUSINESS AND LIFE TOO.
EVEN AT YOUR WORKING PLACE.
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH WANTING TO BE THE BEST,
EVERYONE WANTS TO EXCEL.... 

LEARNING FROM OUR COMPETITORS CAN BRING VALUE TO YOUR LIFE OR BUSINESS.

THESE ARE THE WAYS IN WHICH COMPETITION CAN HELP IN BUSINESS,JOB& LIFE TO BRING SUCCESS;;;

~~~~~IT CHALLENGES YOU TO BE INNOVATIVE; this makes you to be always creative and careful in what you have to offer to the public or to the customer. It gives you respect and makes you get a head.

~~~~~IT SHOWS YOU WHAT THE MARKET AND (COMMUNITY) WANTS;;if the community or customer chose your competitor it should tell you what their preferences are..it applies even at work.

~~~~~IT FORCES YOU TO STAY INFORMED;;researching the needs of the community,bosses and even customers and the competitors is essential,You will stay updated with current trends.

~~~~IT MAKES YOU DIFFERENT;;;you will always be singled out when you are among people, because you excell.

USE COMPETITION TO YOUR ADVANTAGE...
COMPETITION IS HEALTHY....

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THE OBAMAS INAUGURATION

MAYBE THIS HAS BEEN A QUESTION TO MANY, ME INCLUSIVE.....
DECIDED TO DIG ABOUT IT AND HERE WE ARE,,
AMA DAY LATE BUT HOPE IT CAN SERVE THE PURPOSE.....
INAUGURATION
Inauguration Day occurs in the USA once every four years on January 20. It occurs in the year after presidential elections have been held. The new terms of office of the president and vice-president officially begin at noon in Washington DC.

What do people do?

On Inauguration Day the candidates, who won the elections in the previous year, are sworn into office as president and vice-president of the United States. The swearing-in ceremony takes place at the U.S. Capitol and is organized by the Joint Congressional Committee on Inaugural Ceremonies. It is usually followed by a parade along Pennsylvania Avenue.
The new president watches the parade from the presidential viewing stand in front of the White House. The route of the parade is often lined by thousands of people. However, many Americans watch the ceremony on television or listen to it on the radio.

Public life(Kwa wale tupendao public holydays)

Inauguration Day is not a public holiday and many people are expected to work as usual. Many schools, stores and other organizations are open as normal in many parts of the USA. Public transport services run on their regular schedules. There may be changes to normal broadcasting schedules on television and radio, as news stations cover the inauguration ceremony.

Background(more)

The head of state of the USA has been a president since 1789. In that year, George Washington was elected and inaugurated as president of the United States of America. He was inaugurated for the first time on April 30, 1789, and for the second time on March 4, 1793. Subsequent inaugurations were held on March 4 until the second inauguration of President Franklin Roosevelt on January 20, 1937. Since then Inauguration Day has been held on January 20 and the term of office officially starts at 12:00 noon on that date.
Usually the vice-president is sworn in first and the president at exactly 12:00 noon. After they have been sworn in, the president and vice-president are given four ruffles and flourishes. The ruffles are played on drums and the flourishes on bugles, which are simple brass instruments with no valves. The ruffles and flourishes form a fanfare before performance of the president's anthem, "Hail to the Chief", and the vice-president's anthem, "Hail, Columbia". There is then a 21-gun salute from the howitzers of the military district of Washington.
After the ceremony, the president and vice-president are guests of honor at a luncheon given by the United States Congress. Later in the day, they parade down Pennsylvania Avenue and walk part of the way from the Capitol to the White House. If Inauguration Day falls on is a Sunday, the presidential oath is usually administered in a private ceremony on that day and a public ceremony and celebrations are held on the following day.

BEST OF ALL..
MICHELLE NAILED IT...

 THE FIRST FAMILY(BEAUTFUL)



WOOOW...
Jason Wu gown and Jimmy Choo shoes...
THIS LADY IS MY FASHION MENTOR....


THE GIRLS,,

2009 VS 2013...

NICE DAY TO YOU ALL..
C.....



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LOVE LIKE A LOVE SONG

DAYS ARE NEVER ALIKE,
EACH DAY COMES WITH ITS OWN LUCK OR BLESSINGS,
EVERY SINGLE DAY THERE IS A SINGLE OR A NEW FEELING INTO SOMEONE.
YESTERDAY WAS A STRESSFUL DAY TO ME AND I KEPT COUNTING HOURS ONLY TO FIND THE DAY BEING LONGER THAN I WANTED IT TO BE...
I WAS BORED ALMOST THE WHOLE DAY....

WELL TODAY IS DIFFERENT
IT IS JUST A BLESSING
MY BFF CALLED ME THIS MORNING TO GIVE ME GOOD NEWS,IT WAS THE FIRST THING THAT HAPPENED TO ME WHEN I WOKE UP..GOOD NEWS,,
IT MADE ME HAVE CONFIDENT THAT MY DAY WOULD DEFINETELY GO WELL...
TO TOP IT ALL AM JUST HAPPY AND IN THAT MOOD OF SHOWING LOVE TO EVERYONE WHO BLESSES MY DAY TODAY.....

SOMETIMES ALL SOMEONE NEEDS IS LOVE,,,
SHOW LOVE
GIVE HOPE TO SOMEONE
AND MAKE THEM HAPPY..
WE SHOULD ALWAYS LOVE LIKE A LOVE SONG,,,,,

I LOVE HOW SELENA FLOWS WITH THE LYRICS...TAKE YOUR TIME TO LISTEN TO THIS SONG...

It's been said and done
Every beautiful thought's been already sung
And I guess right now here's another one
So your melody will play on and on, with the best of 'em
You are beautiful, like a dream come alive, incredible
A sinful, miracle, lyrical
You've saved my life again
And I want you to know.....

[Chorus]
I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby
I, I love you like a love song, baby

Constantly, boy you played through my mind like a symphony
There's no way to describe what you do to me
You just do to me, what you do
And it feels like I've been rescued
I've been set free
I am hypnotized by your destiny
You are magical, lyrical, beautiful
You are... And I want you to know baby

No one compares
You stand alone, to every record I own
Music to my heart that's what you are
A song that goes on and on

I love you...like a love song...



LOVE IS MY HOME...
Candilicious...

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R.I.P Maggie Morati

daah its shocking how you can smile with someone today and then the next day someone is no more.
Yaan its like leo nipo kesho ni matarajiwa.
Am out of words.
I lost my neighbor at home..
Rest in Peace Maggie Morattie...
My heart goes to your mummy and kids...
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UGLY RUMOURS...

ITS A GOOD THING TO BE A STAR BUT ALSO IT COSTS ALOT TO BE A STAR...
FAME IS EXPENSIVE,,,,,,,,,,ITS' COSTY...
 
PEOPLE TEND TO KNOW YOU MORE THAN YOU KNOW YOURSELF AND SOMETIMES THEY EVEN CAN TELL LIES ABOUT YOU JUST TO SATSIFY OTHER PEOPLE'S EARS.
 
I AM A PRIVATE PERSON AND I DONT LIKE PEOPLE KNOWING ME SO MUCH, PEOPLE TEND TO JUDGE ME ON THIS LIKE AM HIDING THINGS.
BUT THAT IS HOW I LOVE IT, MY BUSINESS BE MY OWN NOT NYONES, UNLESS I DECIDE TO SHARE WILLINGLY.
 
MY GIRL, IS TIRED AND HERE SHE GOES
 
Enough is Enough!
It is disgusting that Life & Style and InTouch magazines continue to print these false stories about my life: the status of my marriage, false reports about a miscarriage, the horrible lie that my dad is not my biological father, jealousy over my sisters’ lives, etc. It is a complete waste of time to address these reports every time they print these ridiculous and absurd tabloid stories, but not only are these stories untrue, they’re also unfair to the people who buy the magazines expecting to read accurate reports. Anyone who pays attention to these things can easily see the incredible bond that everyone in my family shares. I’m happily married to a wonderful man and fall in love with him more and more each day, and we’ll have a baby when god wants us to and when the time is right. These blatant lies are distasteful and shameless.
Enough is Enough!  It is disgusting that Life & Style and InTouch magazines continue to print these false stories about my life: the status of my marriage, false reports about a miscarriage, the horrible lie that my dad is not my biological father, jealousy over my sisters’ lives, etc. It is a complete waste of time to address these reports every time they print these ridiculous and absurd tabloid stories, but not only are these stories untrue, they’re also unfair to the people who buy the magazines expecting to read accurate reports. Anyone who pays attention to these things can easily see the incredible bond that everyone in my family shares. I’m happily married to a wonderful man and fall in love with him more and more each day, and we’ll have a baby when god wants us to and when the time is right. These blatant lies are distasteful and shameless.
 
 
NOTHING HURTS LIKE WHEN SOMEONE DECIDES TO SPREAD SOMETHING UGLY ABOUT YOU AND PEOPLE BELEIVE WHAT THEY READ OR HEAR ABOUT IT..
 
IT IS ALWAYS WISE TO THINK AND WATCH OUT WHAT YOU SAY OR COMMENT ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE,BECAUSE ONLY ONE SINGLE WORD CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN SOMEONES LIFE, IT CAN HARM HIM/HER,CAN BUILD HIM OR HER,CAN MAKE SOMEONE LOSE A JOB, CAN MAKE SOMEONE JUDGED WRONGLY IN THE COMMUNITY...
 
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BREAK THE SHELL AND SPEAK...

I AM ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE WHO REALLY CANT TALK, I MEAN THOSE WHO CAN NOT EXPRESS THEMSELVES.

 
YAANI KAMA NI POLICE NIKIPELEKWA NAWEZA KUFUNGWA BILA KOSA JUST BECAUSE I CANT EXPLAIN WELL, I DONT STAMMER BUT AM NOT A PUBLIC SPEAKER AT OL.
I GET ALOT OF PROBLEMS ESPECIALY AT WORK WHERE MOST OF THE TIME I HAVE TO MEET CLIENTS AND EVEN MY DIRECTORS FOR OPERATIONAL OR STAFF MEETINGS AND THEY NEED ME TO EXPLAIN SOMETHING. YAANI MTOTO WA WATU NAKUAGA KAMA ZUZU..
AM JUST A POOR COMMUNICATOR
AM ONLY GOOD IN WRITTING OR TEXTN,,HAPO TU HUNIKAMATI...
 
I REALLY DONT LIKE THIS COZ MOST OF THE TIMES PEOPLE END UP GETTING THE WRONG VERSION OF WHAT I MEAN.
I KEEP WONDERING OF HOW TO SOLVE THIS PROBLEM..NI MIMI PEKE YANGU AU KUNA WEZANGU WHO HAVE GONE THROUGH THIS!!! HOW DID THEY MANAGE TO SOLVE IT,,,
 
LET ME SHARE SOME TIPS OF WHICH AM PRACTICING ON PUBLIC SPEAKING...
pia one can attend a training for public speaking.

5 Tips to become a Great Speaker..



 
Summary: 
Public Speaking is considered the second most feared thing by humans next to “death”. Yet, anyone can overcome this fear by frequent practice and remembering a certain set of rules. This post tries to points out these rules through 5 tips which if obeyed correctly, would help anyone to overcome this fear and become great public speakers and communicators.

Public Speaking is one of the most important skills that should be there in every professional. Whether it is speaking in a meeting or giving a speech in front of a big audience, the skill of public speaking and communicating will enable you to get your message through and keep your audience’s attention from the beginning to the end.


Tip # 1 Remember the 3 Critical Factors for Effective Communication
. First, there should be an Objective which is what you as a speaker is planning to achieve through your speech. Next, you have to have the Knowledge about the topic/subject you are going to talk about and last not least you need to have Emotion to let your audience feel what you are talking about.
 Objective( clear idea on what your speech will be about so they can set themselves up to listen to you).
 You also need to have sufficient knowledge about the subject matter that you are going to talking. 
You also need emotion in your speech since that is what that drives your speech from start to the end.(Communication is Emotion in Motion ” )
You need to get them into an “Emotional Hook “, which will keep them interested in your speech from the beginning to the end.
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Tip # 2 Don’t be Shy to Say What You Want to Say
Public Speaking helps anyone to break out of their shell and build up their self confidence. It helps you to express what you want to say and in process allows you to achieve your objectives.
On the flipside, it is also important to do what you are say. NATO’s ( No Action Taking Only )

So, build your self confidence by grabbing every opportunity presented to you to speak; but always remember to be responsible for what you say and prevent yourself from being called a NATO.

Tip # 3 Be Conscious of Body Language
While giving importance to your speech is vital, it is also important to give importance to the body language of your audience so you can understand their behavior during your speech. 
 “Body Language Never Lies”  “ 65 % of communication is carried out through Body Language. ” So, when you are carrying out your speech , it is important to analyze and understand your audience’s body language and adjust your speech accordingly.

Also, you need to give focus to your own Body as well. Proper Attire, the way you sit, the way you stand , the way you handshake and make eye contact with your audience are also important traits of a good speaker.

The same theory applies when you give out business cards, where if you ever receive one , you need to read it before putting inside your pocket. This kind of etiquette and behavior will make you stand out from the rest .

Tip # 4 Adopt a Format and Stick to it
There are many formats a speaker can use in order to carry out his/her speech. These includes the Story, Problem/Causes/Solutions , Call to Action method and the CRAC (Conclusion, Rule , Analysis , Conclusion) method.
The most suggested effective method though is the “Tell Me Format “. This format contains 3 steps which include:
Step 1: Tell What you are going to Say
Step 2: Say it..
Step 3: Tell What you Said
Whatever the method you choose, it is important to stick to it right through out your speech and obey the rules in the given format. If you do that, your speech will be a success and you will always know what to do when you go to give speeches in the future.

Tip # 5 Don’t forget the Small things.
To be a great speaker, it is important that you don’t forget the small things which could lead to big results and could have a big impact on your whole speech. This includes brushing up your language every now and then ( if it is English it is great to keep a dictionary with you all the time to learn new words and constant reading of good literature will also help you to master the language ) , prevent yourself from underestimating your audience and other opponent speakers though it is ok to overestimate them , Trying your best to get the audience’s attention towards you . Always being yourself, Praise others in Public but Criticize others in Private, Bringing something new and last not least enjoy what you do.

The above tips are important for a great speech and would help you to create an ever lasting impression of you on your audience minds. So don’t forget the simple things. It could take you a long way in achieving your objective and achieving success.

 A Good Communicator looks at a problem and tries to fix it so the situation is better than before. “ These tips would surely help you to do that and achieve that goal to the best of your ability.
Yet, you cannot do it overnight, you need to Practice .
You should never forget the 6P’ s ( Proper Prior Preparation Prevents Poor Performance )”...

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USHAURI WA BURE

MMHHH...
HOW DOES IT FEEL CORRECTING SOMEONE ON THE SAME THING LIKE FIVE TIMES,HALAFU S/HE MAKES ONE LAST SLIGHT MISTAKE AGAIN ON THE SAME THING...DO YOU REALLY HAVE TO CORRECT HER AGAIN AU UNAKAUSHIA??? ...???

PERSONALY WHEN SOMEONE CORRECTS ME I LEARN TO BE CAREFUL; NOT TO MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE, I DONT GET ANGRY BUT I APPRECIATE THE FACT THAT SOMEONE CARED ENOUGH TO CORRECT ME.

I BELIEVE THAT CORRECTION IS SOMETHING WHICH IS ENTITLED TO EVERYONE  REGARDLESS OF THE POSITION, AGE OR EVEN ANY LEVEL ANYWHERE UNDER THIS SUN. NO ONE,ABSOLUTELY NO ONE KNOWS EVERYTHING AND CAN BE CORRECT ALL THE TIME.

JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE THE EXPERIENCE AND SKILLS SOMEWHERE DOESNT MEAN THAT YOU CANT BE WRONG, GIVE ROOM FOR THOSE WITHOUT EXPERIENCE TO SHOW YOU WHAT THEY GOT AND INFACT IT MIGHT HELP YOU GAIN SOMETHING NEW,,,JUST REMEMBER YOU SCHOOLED 1970S AND ALOT OF CHANGES HAVE HAPPENED, THE UNEXPERIENCED 2000S TOO HAVE SOMETHING TO TEACH YOU,,ACCEPT THEIR CORRECTIONS...

I DONT THINK IT MAKES SENSE FOR SOMEONE TO GET ANGRY OR MAD WHEN S/HE IS BEING CORRECTED MIND YOU THE PERSON MAKING THIS CORRECTION SHOULD ALSO HAVE OR USE A NICE LANGUAGE.

WE SHOULD HAVE A POSITIVE ATTITUDE WHEN SOMEONE IS ADVICING US ON THINGS THAT WE MADE MISTAKES ON. TRY TO BE OPTMISTIC, BE FLEXIBLE FOR CHANGE, DONT BE RIGID LIKE A ROCK, COZ EVEN ROCKS SOMETIMES ROLL.....

NICE LUNCH TO EVERYONE...
C.....

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Sagittarian 2013

Am not a horosocope follower but i sometimes read what these people write, i dont know the truthness in what they write but wanna share with you,,,

Sagittarians 2013....

2013 Sagittarius Horoscope Overview

The following is an overview horoscope for the zodiac sign of Sagittarius for the year 2013. For our detailed Yearly Horoscopes, see our 2013 Yearly Horoscopes.

Areas of Expansion in 2013 for Sagittarius: Partnerships, Self-Knowledge, Intimacy, Finances

Your Sagittarius 2013 Horoscope points to areas of life that are destined to expand and grow.
Until June 25, 2013, your partnerships, relating abilities, and powers of negotiation continue to grow and expand. New partnership opportunities (yes, even plural) can arrive now, or the chance to bring fresh energy to an existing committed relationship emerges. Relationships entered into now are generally successful and happy -- they seem, at least for the time being, to be mutually beneficial. Sometimes, this transit absolves an existing partnership, but if this is the case, it is likely to come as a relief or it is a "blessing in disguise". Meeting someone better for you may be a reason for this. Your ability to get along with others is enhanced as you are especially willing to compromise, and you are more appealing than usual.
This influence began last June, but may have been dormant in the last quarter of 2012. The desire to improve and grow through your relationships resumes at full speed in February 2013.
You can negotiate more successfully than ever, and, if applicable, win in legal matters. Legal matters or challenging relationship problems from the past can be resolved, and more casual disputes can be settled as well. You may find yourself taking on the role of consultant or advisor, or you could benefit from help from same. Good publicity may come your way. If your career has you working with or before the public, you can safely expect increased popularity. Relationships and partnerships benefit from expansive, warm energy, difficult relationships may be absolved, and/or successful new ones are entered into during this period. Income from work may improve.
Potential negatives: You may be attracting partners who are more concerned with freedom than with pairing, or who seem to be quite extravagant.
However, for the most part, you are likely to enjoy an improved social life, and in particular, communications with someone important to you during this cycle. You learn a lot through your experiences and interactions with an important "other".
From June 25th onward, your intimate life enlarges and expands, bringing you more joy and new discoveries. During this cycle, you learn to embrace inner change in order to feel more empowered. There may be more opportunities to find support, financial and/or emotional, but you should be wary of living on credit and borrowing too heavily from the future.
This influence is with you until July 2014, and it's time to grab opportunities that help you to feel on top of your life and empowered. Conversations are deep and lead to discovery. Sexuality is richer. There can be benefits and support coming your way through others, whether it's money back from the government, you have an easier time getting loans or mortgages, a partner's income increases, or you inherit something valuable. Combining your own resources, talents, and/or money with a partner can improve your own financial outlook. This is also a time when you approach life with more depth, and others can sense a more serious tone in you.
Potential negatives: Taking on too much debt or relying too heavily on others for support. In August and September especially, you would be wise to avoid taking risks with money, and possibly even your heart and body.
Otherwise it's a strong period for opening yourself up to others and for feeling more confident about your own depths. July is strong for family support.

Areas of Contraction and Lessons in Simplicity: Spirituality, Inner World, Privacy

Your Sagittarius 2013 Horoscope points to areas of contraction, restriction, and necessary "slimming down" in order to test for stable foundations. There are always areas of life that require more simplicity. Tests may be part of the picture as you learn that life with only growth and expansion can run away with itself.
The area of your life that requires a "back to basics" approach is the sector that rules spirituality and retreat. There may be tests of sorts in these areas of life, as if the universe is checking that the foundations are strong. Things built on weak foundations may very well crack under the pressure of these tests. Those that are strong will endure and strengthen.
This influence began October 5th, 2012, and is with you until September, 2015. It can be felt most strongly earlier or later in the cycle, depending on when you were born.
All that lies beneath the surface in your life is now coming up for inspection, and you are forced to do some serious "spring cleaning" of your psyche. Getting rid of outdated attachments, and examining and discarding irrational fears, is not only necessary for further growth and development -- it's ultimately a huge relief. You may be attracted to alternate ways of living, and to self-study fields, such as psychoanalysis. Do your best not to dwell on past failures or guilt for what you haven't done during this cycle. Detach yourself from these things as much as possible. Put things to rest. This can also be a time when you give of yourself to others, as you are valuing charity more than usual. You could be struggling with issues of self-worth, and this is a fine time to really explore what it is that holds you back from going after what you want and deserve in life.

Areas of Excitement, Innovation, Independence, and Speed: Romance, creativity, Children, Recreation

Your 2013 Sagittarius Horoscope points to areas of your life that seem to speed up so that you are able to take some risks, innovate, and revolutionize.
In March 2011, you entered a lengthy period in which your romantic and creative life is unpredictable and unusual, but also inspiring and exciting. This influence is with you throughout 2013 and beyond. You are more attracted to people who are free-spirited, individualistic, and possibly even eccentric on a romantic level. Your romantic life is bound to be very colorful this year and in coming years. As well, you are tapping into your "inner genius" when it comes to expressing yourself creatively. Your writing and speech may be more imaginative and unusual or unique. Communication can be the key when it comes to making romantic connections, and many of you could be experimenting with online dating. There can be new forms of recreation and entertainment that interest you this year. Sagittarian artists are expressing themselves more uniquely and originally.
Watch for overspending or risky investments especially in May, August, and October-November, when sudden changes and impulses tend to rule.

Areas of Change, Purging, & Transformation: Finances, Values, Work, Spirituality, Faith

Your 2013 Sagittarius Horoscope reveals areas of life in which change and transformation take place. It's a time for "out with the old, in with the new".
Attitudes towards finances and possessions, as well as money itself and personal values, continue to transform this year. Finances are likely to improve in March-April and September-October. However, there may be some challenges in May, August, and November, when sudden events or circumstances can leave you feeling a little insecure, but also motivate you to think outside the box.
In 2013, service to others, work, daily routines, and health are evolving in important ways. You are learning about self-care through improving your daily routines, bringing more order and organization to your life, and taking better care of your health. Recognizing your personal limitations in terms of just how much you can give to others and just how much compassion and understanding you can show is essential now. You are also learning to rid yourself of guilt about under-performing, and to develop faith and trust in a larger more spiritual plan. It's time to let go of some of your fears that you are not doing enough, to develop more compassion and understanding of others, and to be humble, feeling safe in the knowledge that you (and others) are not perfect.


Kwa wale wavivu kusoma will edit and summarize for you once i have time.....
Till later...

C

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WE SAGITTARIUns.....

Been going through this page in twitter and i find most of these tweets to be true...
Hey team Sagittarius am i right about this?

# Sagittarius...wont compromise in a relationship. It's either what they expect from a partner or nothin at all

# Sagittarius... hate the day when the only text message they get all day is from cell phone company


# Sagittarius...do what they can, with what they have, where they are and get succeed

# Sagittarius...don't waste their time on taking mindless revenges. They forgive quickly for their own sake

# Sagittarius..are kind hearted when in love they will do anything for their mate.                  .

# Sagittarius... females intimidate men because they are intelligent and dont depend on them emotionally. (not me saying but it the t....) 
               
# Sagittarius....sometimes hides their emotions to avoid feeling vulnerable or weak.

# Sagittarius.... likes their own space

# Sagittarius....Honesty is part of being a . Without it they feel incomplete.

# Sagittarius....Seeking truth in a world shrouded with falsehood and duality is a spiritual path for the .

# Sagittarius...Wanted by many, taken by none, looking at some, but waiting for one.

# Sagittarius....Just because a is quiet doesn't mean they're arrogant. They're just constantly observing and thinking



Team Sagittarius Yeey!!!
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WHO SAYS!!!!

I wouldn't wanna be anybody else,
 heyYou made me insecure, to me I wasn't good enough
But who are you to judge
When you're a diamond in the rough
I'm sure you got some things You'd like to change about yourself

But when it comes to me I wouldn't want to be anybody else

I'm no beauty queen,
I'm just beautiful me You got every right to a beautiful life,
come on

Who says, who says you're not perfect
Who says you're not worth it Who says you're the only one that's hurting
Trust me that's the price of beauty
Who says you're not pretty Who says you're not beautiful, who says?

It's such a funny thing How nothing's funny when it's youYou tell 'em what you mean But they keep whitin' out the the truth
It's like the work of art That never get to see the light

Keep you beneath the starsWon't let you touch the sky

I'm no beauty queen, I'm just beautiful meYou got every right to a beautiful life, come on
Who says, who says you're not perfectWho says you're not worth itWho says you're the only one that's hurtingTrust me that's the price of beautyWho says you're not prettyWho says you're not beautiful, who says?


Who says you're not star potential
Who says you're not presidential
Who says you can't be in movies Listen to me, listen to me
Who says you don't pass the test

Who says you can't be the best
Who said, who said?Would you tell me who said that, yeahWho said
Who says, who says you're not perfect

Who says you're not worth it
Who says you're the only one that's hurting
Trust me that's the price of beauty
Who says you're not pretty Who says you're not beautiful, who says?
Who says you're not perfectWho says you're not worth itWho says you're the only one that's hurtingTrust me that's the price of beautyWho says you're not prettyWho says you're not beautiful, who says?.....





ENJOY THIS  BEAUTFUL LYRICS..
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How To Dress For Cocktail Party | MillionLooks.com

How To Dress For Cocktail Party | MillionLooks.com

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WEDDING HEADACHES!!!!

This goes to all my girlfriends who are preparing to get married this year..

We all have different wishes and timing. For those who are ready GO AHEAD...
It is a good thing that you have found that one person who said to himself "am never letn go off this girl, she is the one i can introduce to my mama"mmmh shikilieni msiwachilie.
Congrats to you and i hope you are aware of what ndoa is and most importatntly is the love you feel for the guys you got....Just remember that Marriage is the most blissful thing that can happen to a girl!
 
 
 
So here are some tips how to pick the best bridal outfit for your
Before you head to the bridal shop, it is best to do some homework. Be clear in your head about the style, colour and fit. It is also better to be familiar with the terminology associated with wedding gowns.
 


 How to select the wedding gown,
  • Research:
it is very important to do some research before you visit a bridal store. Check out few wedding gown designs on wedding sites and bridal magazines. This will make the wedding gown shopping experience lot easier. Bridal gown is the most important pick and therefore it is important to spend some time looking out for it. Buy only when completely satisfied with the pick.

  • Visit two or three bridal stores:
It is very important to be satisfied. It is best to visit two or three bridal stores. It is not necessary that you are comfortable and convinced in the very first store you visit. There is a probability that you might find gowns out of your budget, poor customer services or nothing seems to be working.

  • Go in a gang:
Take your mother, sister or girl friends when out for bridal gown shopping. They will help you get in and out of heavy gowns and also give their valuable comments and suggestions. There are few gowns that look perfect but when you adorn them they fail to accentuate the right curves of the body and make you look unattractive.

  • Take body type in consideration:
Remember when out for shopping the bridal gown, it is best to take your body type in consideration. Pick the gown that flatters your figure and downplays the not-so perfect areas. No matter tall, short, curvy or thin, all brides can still look ravishing on the wedding day by picking the perfect wedding gown.Bridal gown choice rests on size, background, body shape and height of the bride. It is important to pick the gown that accentuates and highlights the body so that the bride feels at her best.


  • Be open-minded:
Michael Shettel advices brides to go with open mind to shop their dream dress. Most women have a dream dress in mind when they begin with shopping and hesitate trying others. But it is best to step out of your box and try other silhouettes too. This gives the brides the chance to see what suits them the best. Remember, it is your day to embrace all the beauty and shine. Some of the must try bridal gown shapes this season are:

  • Hourglass or pear shape: Trumpet shaper or mermaid shaped bridal gowns are here to flatter the brides figure. This gives an opportunity to the bride with hourglass curves to celebrate them.

  • Apple shaped: For brides with a few extra pounds in the middle, A-line or empire is the best pick as it keep the attention of the onlookers upwards, smoothing out the middle. Wrap style is also a great idea to trim the mid-section, in case bride doesn’t want to try flowing styles.

  • Athletic figures: Brides with athletic figures must pick gowns that accentuate the waist line and give it a perfect shape. Pick off shoulder V-neck and cap sleeve gowns if you have broad shoulders. V-neck creates the décolletage and cap sleeves soften the shoulders. If your collar bone allows try out halter neck bridal gowns.

With these little suggestions, tips and tricks leave your groom and guests spell bound on the most important day of your life, by simply picking the right wedding ensemble for you..

All the best girlfriends esp to you bff....

c....
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THE HOUSE ON FIRE...

I HAVE FOUND A PLACE WHERE MY WEDDING WILL TAKE PLACE IN FEW YEARS TO COME,,,,,,,,,

To
my dear hubby to be(wherever you are) ,,my parents,Inlaws,relatives&friends
Please just know that;
I FELL INLOVE WITH THE PLACE THE MOMENT I SET MY EYES ON IT,AND I SAID TO MYSELF" THIS IS THE PLACE"...it is called WASHA UMKHUKHU "HOUSE ON FIRE'' in Swaziland!!!!!!!!!

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HOUSE ON FIRE,,,(www.house-on-fire.com)
 It is an entire village. And more. It’s a performance venue, an art gallery, a festival ground, and a night club. The property also includes a restaurant, bar, coffee shop, several craft stores, and a B&B. The whole place is straight out of a fantasy novel.
It hosts the Bush Fire Festival(which takes place at (), featuring poetry, theatre and music among other performances.




THE ENTRANCE







THE GALLERY

I NEVER CLIMBED TREES,,THIS ONE SERVED TO BE THE HIGHEST POINT I COULD.."LOL"



QUEEN CAY THE III

SHE IS QUITE "TOL"



SIYABONGA



THE STAGE




FEELS GOOD TO BE A NAUGHTY WMAN

CANT BELIEVE I CAN ACTUALLY SWING..

THE GREEN
the fields are so green and beautful....




THE KUCH KUCH HO TAE STUFF

LETS SMILE FOR THE CAMERA

LETS HIDE& SEE....



WHERE I CAN PRAY

TAKING A STEP AT A TIME



A LITTLE MEDITATION
THE ANIMATIONS






lets ride the elee...


OMG what if i fall bad..







Sitting on tortooo

THE CRAFTS;
The most prominent store at House on Fire is Gone rulal which sells locally made woven crafts.








Enjoy your day,
Love is my home..

C..

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