Woke up craving for pictures.Yes sometimes it is my way of relaxing...
Compliments to my photographer...these pictures are priceless...Pole for the tortures of having to wait nitafute pose.
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2nd Day of 2014
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Y.o.Lo....Relax...
Sometimes getting out and going to a nice restaurant makes a big difference in life.
Relaxed, relaxed and relaaaaaaxed....a toast to life,,,
Y.O.L.O.
2014 on Vessel.
My fingers dont know what to type
My mind is loaded and my head is aching....
Perhaps it is because i dont know what to write or where to begin writting.
2013 has been so good to me, yes in deed it was.
It was a year of success,a year of opportunities, a year of growth.
0n 31st December 2012 as i welcomed 2013, had so much hope, had so much expectation and i made a lot of to do list for 2013...
I had so much strength for 2013 and i believed that it was a year of change for me and that i would make a difference not only to my life but to others too.
I did not achieve everything i wanted but did manage to get things moving, i built foundation for other things to be achieved in 2014.
I made countless mistakes of which some i wish i would repair them, erase them and even forget about them.
But then these mistakes made me realise that i made mistakes...and that I was wrong.
However i would feel i comitted crime if i did not write this.
Socially, i have been very far from those who love me and i must admit that i have been so selfish, keeping myself far from others, have been poor in communication with my family, friends and even my neighbors, have been busy with life such that i forgot the social life.
I forgot that life starts at home, it starts with the family, it goes to the neighbors and spreads to the community, when we fail in maintaining this good relationships socially we are affected in all aspects of life.
I remember my dad asking several time when i call him like "za siku nyingi"and i must admit that i tore me apart and felt so bad...i mean who lets his/her parents miss him/her??
To my family, friends and those close to me, please do forgive me on this. Promise to be of value in 2014.
All in all
God has been so good to me, he never let me out of sight as much as i left him...
I nearly was knocked by a car in town today, but God spared my life...
His Grace was so sufficient as always.
And today as i count hours to 2014 i dont want to wish for anything but i just want to say "Thank you Jehover Yahwer for Life"...
I wish everyone a happy 2014...
Please if anyone feels like writing something inspiring of his/her life in 2013, share on my mail(camesh2718@gmail.com) so that i can publish it.Thanks...and enjoy responsibly..
Smiles.
Candy..
Count down #5"procrastination"
Time runs fast...
Time doesnt wait for anyone...
Looking back at end of 2012 I was so excited and had alot of to do lists for 2013...
Now as I count days towards end of 2013 alot has not been achieved...
There were alot of reasons as to why I did not achieve my goals for 2013....
I can say that I did not do my homework very well
I failed to prioritize,
I procrastinated, "each morning for over eight months I woke up and decided that the next morning would be the day to do this.” It was always about to do something, but the moment to act never arrived.
I ignored most ideas that came flowing in my head..
I allowed the character lazyness take the best place in me most of the time...
2014
should be more self-disciplined. And one very simple definition of self-discipline is “doing what you know you need to do"
It is always complicated when it comes to syncing feelings/thoughts with actions....Just to think about it how does it feel getting out of bed in the morning? I almost always feel tired, lethargic, heavy, sluggish. When I get out of bed, I virtually never feel energetic and raring to go! But I take my feelings of tiredness and sluggishness with me as I leave my bed and walk to the bathroom....
If you want to achieve anything, put away your feelings ,do what you need to do and forget about "i will do later"...do it now...
C...
My Christmas Prayer...
Heavenly Father, thank you for sending your Son to earth as a baby so many years ago. Thank you that He paid the punishment for my sins by dying on the cross. And thank you that He rose again to prove that death was truly defeated. I place my trust in You to be my Savior. Guide me through the dark times of my life and give me courage to live for you.
Please forgive me for being so grumpy as I trudge through the never-ending tasks set before me this holiday season...
My to-do list seems to keep growing with shopping, church services, and family gatherings---
and I'm running short of time!
Restore the joy of Christmas to my heart . . .
and help me to relax each day and make time for
YOU--
my one true Source of Joy
C..
Count down #3.."Wrong choices"
Choices have consequences...yes they do...
2013 has been full of choices, it has been full of decisions... and by the way Life is made of decisions, and whether we like or not we make decision almost every second, we decide whether to sleep or not, whether to study or watch televison instead.
I believe that every action, every step starts with a choice....
Reviewing all my choices this year i must say that some were good and others were bad.
Talking of the wrong or bad choices i must say that i chose to fight battles that were not necessary....most of the time I chose to do wrong even when i knew that i was wrong..and i have paid a great price for this wrong choices...
I have neglected most of the time important things and i let my pride, my desires get the best of me....
Its alot to mention...
But Joyce Meyer in her article "the power of choice" says this......
"Wisdom always chooses to do now what it will be satisfied with later on… ”
If you have made foolish choices (and we’ve all done it at times in our lives) and you’re not happy with the way things are, you can change. But you have to be willing to take responsibility for your wrong choices and make a determined decision to change the way you behave. When you do, you’ll find that every right choice you make helps reverse the wrong decisions you’ve made in the past.
nobody can change themselves
Whatever change you need to make, simply pray and ask God to change you and help you
We can live with integrity and do what’s right – even when no one is watching us but God. That’s when we know we’re really living for Him and not for ourselves or to please other people.
C...
Count down #2" poor personal branding"
Well they say good branding makes a big sell out..
So the question in my mind is how have i been branding my self this year???
How have i been connecting, networking this year??
Lets look through this in two aspects...
Personal profile..
As i went through my social network profiles one by one, reading keenly about me, i found that i have so little information but again it served the purpose, i mean why would i give so much information about me in the internet..
I just imagined if an employer or any other person looking for product "Me" would they take me basing on what is on my profile?
Well as the Bible says that whatever comes out of someone is what makes the person...so have i been writing responsibly?most of the time yes but again i dont seem to convice myself that i have branded myself so well this year...so that gives me a task in 2014 to present well all my personl profiles, keeping it on the core of my mind that as long as i am on this journey of life,as long as am fighting the battle of success i have to present my self as a product "ME"with quality, and brand myself creatively but honestly, customizing my profile to accomodate my strenghts which are my assets.
Networking&Connections
I have been very poor on networking...i had a great opportunity this year to be around so many successful people whom i could connect and share ideas with but mostly did not take it as an opportunity instead i ignored and went ahead embracing my shyness and quiet out.
I have mostly dressed wrongly on occasions and i must say that have been wishing not to attend many meetings when they came and i was not ready because of my appearance.
Internet has been my bestfriend for 2013 but i cant say that i have added much value with it...i have been so lazy with it.
All i am trying to say here is that Networking is something that we all should look at...we need people around us to make it happen, we need to connect to others so that we can share what we have and what they have to make "a something" valuable...We need there experiences, we need their wits, and sometimes we need their guidance.
Improving your connection to people makes you closer to people and knowing so much, where to start to, who to help you on what, who to advise you on what and etc.
This calls to improve on your personal presentation, starting with how i dress, talk, relate with people, the words, and etc..
Let your 2014 be of good networking and connection..
Communication.
Generally if i had someone marking my communication report for 2013 maybe i would get 30% score out of 100%...
So What to do...
Talk to God all the time and ask him to walk with me as he is the my owner and author of my life,the one who can paint anything beautiful in and on me.
Call my family regularly to check on them and make them not miss me...(they are the true friends who will always have my back...i believe in them....i believe any success to come starts with them and from them....
Communicate with my friends and not make them feel like i have abandoned them no matter the distance we are apart.
Improve on how i talk with people, which words, to whom, to where and at what moment, the tone and the reasoning behind.
To sum up these are the do's on personal branding 2014.....
- Forgive your bosses oftenly,,sometimes they are not fair, dont hold grudges against them....
- Look good all the time.
- Wear a smile all the time
- Stay professional all the time during working hours
- Joke but in a good way
- Be yourself all the time
- Your profile should be a sell out..
C...
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